Re: Let's look at the other side...
You never truly "connect" with a person till you live with them 24/7 because the secret to a successful union is adjustment and putting more things in the postive column than the negative column...so if these people think they've made that perfect connection, I'm not sure they really have. You know how when you are "in love" you don't care about any negatives and your emotions are high enough to fight the entire world...then all of a sudden you get married and reality strikes. Some make it while some don't. Some give it a serious effort and work it our while some don't.