NJ I am going to define it again.
Dance is when a woman moves in a rhythm around a man OR around a pole. That's it!!!
Dont be such a party-pooper PM!!! :) There is SO much fun to be had in either participating in or watching circle dances (where the gals dance in a cirle) and line dances (in USA its very popular, like the "Macarena", the "chicken dance", the lectric slide etc etc). Its not just poles and couples yeah?