We get good and bad apples in all colours/creeds/religions etc. Generalising never really helps but then if most of the ladies of GS only have experience of desi men (of Pakistani background) then that's what they'll rip into at any given chance. Same with non-desi (okay white) chicks. You'll see a group being nice to a girl and as soon as she's out of the picture they'll be like "ohhh she nasty!!!!she did this with such and such". Morale of the story, being critical of others for some bizarre reason is human nature for most of us. My humble opinion anyway.
lol no really thats my experience. e.g. if u try to cheer him up when he is angry or down, in return he ll say something so rude to you ke utha ke ussay pathar maarnay ko dill karay ga. u ll think why on earth i was trying to cheer him up.
Guys like to be left alone when they are angry Imo.
When I am angry if someone tries to cheer me up I'll ignore it, but if the someone agrees (though secretly he/she may not) with me then I'll forget the anger!
lol no really thats my experience. e.g. if u try to cheer him up when he is angry or down, in return he ll say something so rude to you ke utha ke ussay pathar maarnay ko dill karay ga. u ll think why on earth i was trying to cheer him up.
How exactly you try to cheer him?
How do you know a non-Pakistani will not react the same way? :)
only Pakistani mard have given me taana of being DESI . I personally do not mind being called Desi coz thats what i am and i really really enjoy being one but when a desi calls you desi as in a galee sense, or in a sense like he is from some superior breed which is again a desi, then my blood has obvious reason to seethe.
non pakistani has never used this term with me. Rather one knew the term and said he wants to know more about desis so he can give me more good company lol.
but kher hum becharis ki matt maari hai. shadi mein ne phir bhi kisi paki desi se hi karni hai. coz jo mazza kissi desi ko tang karnay mein hai, woh kissi walaithee ko karnay mein nahin.
i ll wake up my sirtaaj in morning, saying, "Uth oey meray desi piyaaa , desi ghee mein desi naashta banaya hai tumhari desi biwi ne, aaja aaja "
. I personally do not mind being called Desi coz thats what i am and i really really enjoy being one 
but when a desi calls you desi as in a galee sense, or in a sense like he is from some superior breed which is again a desi, then my blood has obvious reason to seethe. 
, desi ghee mein desi naashta banaya hai tumhari desi biwi ne, aaja aaja " 
