Ladies: do you ever put the "moves" on your hubby?

Re: Ladies: do you ever put the “moves” on your hubby?

exactly right! :biggthumb:

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and now closed for business! :clown:

Re: Ladies: do you ever put the "moves" on your hubby?

Kaaf, with all due respect Islam DOES address issues regarding intimicay between a husband and wife. The OP isn't going into detail. And if her post is conjuring up certain images in your mind (or that of others), it can even be argued that the reader is the one with the problem.

Re: Ladies: do you ever put the "moves" on your hubby?

I didn't say anything about images in my mind. =/

Also, I agree about Islam addressing that, but we should keep it general. For example, "A woman might want to send certain hints to her husband that she wants to be intimate with him" and not be personal like, "Once I did this with my husband..."

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Ok, I’ll be the first to take the plunge…yes, I have no problems with initiating intimacy with my husband, and he certainly does not mind either! :wub:

I find him insanely hot!! We are married for God’s sake…it’s perfectly Halal! Up until my mom passed away my husband and I have always taken trips away from the kids whenever possible to have time to ourselves. Aside from just being “mama” & “papa” to the kids, we also have a separate relationship amongst ourselves!

And as I’m not one to kiss and tell, that’s all you’re going to get out of me! :snooty:

Re: Ladies: do you ever put the “moves” on your hubby?

o come on :smack:

Re: Ladies: do you ever put the “moves” on your hubby?

=/ Not sure why people are getting upset…

That’s true, btw.

“Verily among the worst people before Allâh on the Day of Judgement is a man who approaches his wife sexually and she responds and then he spreads her secrets.” [Muslim, Ibn Abi Shaiba, Ahmad and others].

**“Perhaps a man might discuss what he does with his wife, or perhaps a woman might inform someone what she did with her husband?” The people were silent. Then I said: “O, Yes! O Messenger of Allâh verily both the women and men do that.” Then the Prophet said: “Do not do that. It is like a male shaitân who meets a female shaitân along the way, and has sex with her while the people look on!” **

Re: Ladies: do you ever put the "moves" on your hubby?

sing it, girl! ;)

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uhhhh i never asked anyone to tell in details what they did

get over it

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Usually good food says it all . :yummy:

Re: Ladies: do you ever put the “moves” on your hubby?

A way to man’s heart is through his belllllyyyyyyyyy…and it is obviously true for NaMaan :cb:

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thanks for sharing khatti- i had given up as everyone can see :stuck_out_tongue:

i’m glad you have such a good relationship! my hubby and i are kinda newlyweds and like i said before he works a LOT- so i’m a little shy sometimes to “go for it” hehe

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^^^Intimacy is a precious gift/bond between husband and wife. Like any other part of your marriage, it needs time to nurture and grow. As time goes by, you'll soon grow comfortable enough with yourself and your husband, I'm sure! Just like there will be times when you're "not in the mood" there will be plenty of times when you are and will take it upon yourself to get what you want!!

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:smack:

No idea what the question was but title has useless question. Someone probably needs chaskaray. :wink:

One poster answered along the line, but who and why should anyone really care?

Agree with UZ.

Re: Ladies: do you ever put the "moves" on your hubby?

i m a very frank person,so i just wanted to ask my wife to make the first move whenever she liked...........

but my english is gharib so i said whenever u like u may move on.....

and one day she left me:D

Re: Ladies: do you ever put the "moves" on your hubby?

Why do desis shy (run) away from having mature conversations about sex? The birth of consecutive children in most desi fams don't lie son.

Re: Ladies: do you ever put the "moves" on your hubby?

People who are struggling to understand the meeting, let me translate

Khawateen: kia aap kabhi apney miaan jee ko chalta kertee heen? (for example: chaloo..chaltey phirtey nazar aooo)

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Bachche to Allah ki den hote hain ji!

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I plan on it.

I got the perfect song for it too.

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and this makes me wonder when will we grow up finally and start to acknowledge sex being a vital part of our married lives (why objection when it is talked about in legit terms like huband wife relationship) There is no denying the fact that religion prohibits giving out your exual life's details to the people but that is mainly to avoid chaskay baazi isnt it? How about the people who have to consult doctors and consultants and therapists and psychologists? Isnt it sharing the details then?