thanks to you guys... yeh we have more problems
Oh just because we are not that easy does not mean that we are problems
Re: Ladies; do they have more problems or they are just more open about them
i know one problem that all girls have.
1, skinny girls think they are fat
2, fat girls think they are skinny.
just buy one size bigger pants girls. problem solved. 
Guys post their own problems.. but hide behind some 'shareef friend' and post..
Guys post their own problems.. but hide behind some 'shareef friend' and post..
BUAHAHAHAHAHA u said it all gina
Re: Ladies; do they have more problems or they are just more open about them
i think guys think they will b weak if they will tell anyone abt their probs
Re: Ladies; do they have more problems or they are just more open about them
I would have to say all of the above. (I knew it was trick question)
Also
Guys are not open to sharing their feelings with total strangers.
They also don't like to open up their private lives to other people.
10% of the time they can't really even correctly judge waht is bothering them in the first place
They are not in touch with their feelings as much as women are.
Re: Ladies; do they have more problems or they are just more open about them
^ I love point 5 about men.
I hate point 5 with regards to women. Sometimes it’s like, er… TMI… :aq:
Re: Ladies; do they have more problems or they are just more open about them
NJ because of 4,5,6,7 we are happy as clowns.
and make that 10% hmmm 70%...
Re: Ladies; do they have more problems or they are just more open about them
TMI is a bit gross but we all need someone to talk to.
If not with your spouse - you should have a friend, a siblings, a parent that you can just talk to anything about.
It helps...
NJ because of 4,5,6,7 we are happy as clowns. and make that 10% hmmm 70%...
Clowns are actually sad because they are mean and angry from inside and have a painted happy face from the outside.
Just because you don't VOICE out your problems doesn't make you happy.
In my experience desi men are just as unhappy. Alot of cases of resentment growing up with parents and obligations and what not.
Out of obligations and respect they are not allowed to voice their opinions. they never say anything. But it's there.
Re: Ladies; do they have more problems or they are just more open about them
They bottle it up and then explode on their loved ones...(generalization).
Re: Ladies; do they have more problems or they are just more open about them
^^ too much of generalization 
Re: Ladies; do they have more problems or they are just more open about them
^haha..well then, whats the truth? I have always had to witness that with some of the guys around me. Unfortunately, I become a victim to it sometimes because they think its ok to do it since I won't lash bk.
It's not like they don't have feelings. They do. They also don't let them out, so where do the negative feelings go? pushed under the rug? channelled through a different outlet? bottled up?
You know I admit that it sucks that sometimes us women just rant, rant, and whine. But that does prevent some of us from reaching a threshold and then just exploding. I am not justifying the 'ranting' behaviour but if its done through a proper channel (for instance, in a blog, or with a close friend, or a diary, or her husband depending on their relationship) then what's the harm in it? For example, when I was in university and I would get really pissed off over some issue, I would just start studying..lol, take it out on my books and channel all that negative energy to do myself some good.
My younger brother is the most chilled guy out there but he gets extremely angry at times. He just goes and starts working out. That's his channel to just let it all out without it being built up.
But there are some guys who would just bottle up things inside of them (perhaps so they can always seem like machos, or think that if they cry even a little, they would turn weak :S, or they may hurt the person in front of them). And then they just explode and hurt the person in front of them even more than they would've if they just said the thing at the right time.
Re: Ladies; do they have more problems or they are just more open about them
and some guys pretend to be girl cough*123cough and post their cousin/friend/bil/'s problems
**Guys always discuss problems with their very close friends but not in open forums.
Actually girls always feel un-secure and wants attention **
**So they never miss a chance to get sympathy … **