knock at the door and then wait.

[cricketplaya]

Yes, and a guppan :D

I am not going to say the name, never ever.

then who was the girl that was feeding in public? =O

[Monk]

K_A, in USa, bedrooms dont have locks, do they ?

hmmm
I see.
they should.
I am not comfortable sleeping in a room where any one could walk in.
I don't have a lock on my room now, but I am just renting this apartment.

[Sara516]

Re: knock at the door and then wait.

at in laws house we have a lock on the door..i think all the rooms do. also nobody ver just walks in they always knock. at home we dont have locks on the doors, and my mom is the only one who will come in without knocking..which i dont mind usually.. and in pak, there are three locks to each door

[Monk]

Re: knock at the door and then wait.

^hahahaha

I guess even if a husband have to hug his wife they first lock the door.
Right after eid prayer I saw my brother going in his room and locking the door for few mins.
Off course bhabi will be already in for some "random" work

hahahahaha
I used to make them uncomfortable when they walk out by whistling in the air.

[TLK]

Re: knock at the door and then wait.

^^ You are mean man , hahahaha

[sali786]

tlk- yes they do have locks here in usa- infact each room has a lock-- i get realli uncomfortable sleeping with my room unlocked- i feel like wen i lock my room door its my freedom- i can do and wear watever i want- but yeh sadly my dad and bro's jut knock and then enter without me even saying yes to it- its soo annoying- so now whether its day or night if im in my room- its locked lol -- No ENTRY! :)

[Sweetmoi]

^hahahaha

I guess even if a husband have to hug his wife they first lock the door. Right after eid prayer I saw my brother going in his room and locking the door for few mins. Off course bhabi will be already in for some "random" work

hahahahaha I used to make them uncomfortable when they walk out by whistling in the air.

Haha OMG too funny, but so true :p

[Pseudonymous]

Re: knock at the door and then wait.

i have a habit of having my door shut if not locked. my mom HATES it. yesterday we had an argument over something so she was already kind of pissy and she’s like “aaj se tumhara darwaza khula ho raat ko..wah bhai wah..darwazay band, fan on takay ander ki awazein bahir na jaye..miya biwi soray ho ander?” i was like..

[soni27]

@marwah

i have a habit of having my door shut if not locked. my mom HATES it. yesterday we had an argument over something so she was already kind of pissy and she’s like “aaj se tumhara darwaza khula ho raat ko..wah bhai wah..darwazay band, fan on takay ander ki awazein bahir na jaye..miya biwi soray ho ander?” i was like..

eeeeeww..y is ur mom so intrusive bout ur private bedroom relationship with ur husband? u need ur privacy honey..seriously. if u cant leave hte house go 2 th ebsement or something bcs hwat u jsut described sounds creepy! that is if i understood u correctly.

[Shikra]

@marwah

i have a habit of having my door shut if not locked. my mom HATES it. yesterday we had an argument over something so she was already kind of pissy and she’s like “aaj se tumhara darwaza khula ho raat ko..wah bhai wah..darwazay band, fan on takay ander ki awazein bahir na jaye..miya biwi soray ho ander?” i was like..

So your mother (not mother-in-law) has a problem if you are with your husband in a room and the door is shut?

[aminas]

@soni27

eeeeeww..y is ur mom so intrusive bout ur private bedroom relationship with ur husband? u need ur privacy honey..seriously. if u cant leave hte house go 2 th ebsement or something bcs hwat u jsut described sounds creepy! that is if i understood u correctly.

@Shikra

So your mother (not mother-in-law) has a problem if you are with your husband in a room and the door is shut?

I think she isnt married and her mum said tht thing sarcasticly If I am not wrong

[Pseudonymous]

Re: knock at the door and then wait.

^yes!!

IM NOT MARRIED! lol ..she just doesn't want me sleeping with the door shut all the way..she said "tum apnay husband ke saath so rahi ho kya? ke darwaza band kerti ho?"

[Dushwari]

Re: knock at the door and then wait.

the thought was about only people not knocking, when a mother is breast feeding her child. obviously, mostly in people's houses when new moms go as guests, people know that the guest was given a room to go in for breast feeding the child.

it's also another thing if someone did not really know that in the room a mother is breastfeeding.

no need for wildness of any kind.
sometimes, the best teaching is being all the more decent than the ignorance one witnesses.

[aminas]

@marwah

^yes!!

IM NOT MARRIED! lol ..she just doesn't want me sleeping with the door shut all the way..she said "tum apnay husband ke saath so rahi ho kya? ke darwaza band kerti ho?"

I am the clever one :D

Yeah my mum gets pissed of over two things when I close the door and she can not hear anything from inside and when my fone is on vibration :D

[SindSagar]

@Mamaof3

It is a basic courtesy to knock before entering no matter WHAT the relations may be. I have learned to lock my doors because I have had acquaintances with people who would just walk in my front door and it drove me mad. The last straw was when my first was about 5 mos old. Not only was I breastfeeding at the time but I was in the shower with the bathroom door open so I could listen for the baby when my husband’s brothers friend just sailed in the front door like he owned the place or like he was welcome to do so. (NOT)

GRRRRRRRR!!!

I now have locks, deadbolts and chains for my doors, locks for windows and answering machine for inconvenient phone calls. I have to tell you here that the idiot brother’s friend was not put off by all this…he actually walked around our house looking in windows, tried both front and back door. Creepy.

I know one couple - newlyweds - who had a similar problem. They decided to get the point across in a rather shocking way. They kept a lookout for the perpetrator/invadors who didnt feel the need to knock. When they saw the people arrive in the parking lot and begin to walk to their apartment, they quickly got almost naked and simulated having wild sex in their living room which is the first thing you see when you walk in the door. A brash way of getting the point across for sure…but it surely worked!!

so who was it that learned the most from this?..

[Pseudonymous]

@aminas

I am the clever one :D

Yeah my mum gets pissed of over two things when I close the door and she can not hear anything from inside and when my fone is on vibration :D

same here!..my mom and her crazy ideas..i always have my phone on vibrate and my mom gets annoyed..she says "kiska phone ana hai jiski mughe awaz nai ani chayeh?" LOL

[aminas]

Re: knock at the door and then wait.

^

OMG my mum is exactly the same, she raise her eye brow and say ''kis ke phone aate hain tumhe jis ki khabar kisi ko nahi honi chahiye and I am always like aap ke damaad ke

[Pseudonymous]

Re: knock at the door and then wait.

^hahaha..i couldn't say that to my mom! she'd get serious lol

[sali786]

lol marwah for a second u were married haha lol-- but yeh back to the topic- yes some ladies dont realli care who walks by when there breastfeeding its realli annoying too- i went to a party where this lady just started breastfeeding the child with like 20 guests in front of her including MEN- i mean it wasnt like it was showing or anything but still man go to a room and do that -- and men kind of have a tendancy to keep taking glances at it- like theyll kno they dont have to look at it- lekin nazer zaroor baar baar jaey gi udher.. lol

[Dushwari]

Re: knock at the door and then wait.

most mothers and fathers would actually be happy with good damaads present than their secret phone calls, in the lives of their daughters. that is a blessing that parents think of daughters to not be alone. :>