no no no dear… u close ur eyes coz… u don’t wanna feel dizzy afterwards… or otherwise if ur amatuer.. there is absolutely do evidence of emotional burst
There is a sound scientific reason why you close your eyes when kissing. With somebody that close to you, can you really focus your eyes. I tried and went cross eyed and it hurts the eye to keep the gaze long enough, so there you have it.
Step-by-Step Kissing Guide:
from getromantic.com
[note: applies to both genders.]
Before I ever kissed a guy I always wondered how it was done. I wanted to know ALL the details, but mainly "How do I move my lips?!". The only advice I could find was "it will happen naturally...". I was not satisfied and I know that you would not be satisfied if I told you that same old stuff. I had to settle for learning through experience, funny thing is, one thing I've learned is that for the most part, kissing really does come naturally! With the first guy kissing was awkward, and not very enjoyable because I was so nervous, but after him I felt like a pro. So, I will give you all the basic step-by-step instructions and hopefully that will give you the confidence you need to get that first kiss (or second, or third...) behind you so you can start experimenting and trying new things on your own!
Step 1: Moving In
The first step to a kiss is "moving in". This begins as eye contact with your partner while your faces are in close proximity. When the eye contact is intense and does not break you know a kiss is going to happen. Next, one or both partners will lean their face towards the other person's face. Keep your eyes open and maintain eye contact while "moving in". This will prevent you from missing or having a collision. When your faces are almost close enough to touch, tilt your head a little to the side. If you both go in for the kiss straight-on your noses will bump, with tilted heads your noses will just rub or not touch at all. As a general rule, tilt your head to the left, this seems to be most natural, hopefully your partner will also tilt their head to their left so you are tilting in opposite directions and won't bump noses. As you tilt your head, slowly close your eyes, and part your lips. It is important to close your eyes, keeping them open will probably weird out your partner. When parting your lips don't open your mouth wide, just part them, as if you were going to take a drink from a cup. You are now about to achieve lip contact.
Step 2: Lip Contact
When your lips touch the position should be one whereby your upper lip is nuzzled between your partner's lips and your lower lip is just below their lower lip. So, in effect, you have their lower lip between yours and they have your upper lip between theirs. (see diagram to right)
Step 3: Moving Your Lips
There are many ways to move your lips while kissing. As you become more experienced you will try different techniques and learn new ones both on your own and from your kissing partners. I am going to describe the very basic make-out technique.
The motion of kissing is much like if you were giving someone a peck on the cheek. You press your lips on their skin, then pucker your lips, then release...which usually creates a quick suction noise. When making out you are basically giving your partner a series of pecks on the lips, but drawing each one out to last longer. You also do not kiss them then pull away, then kiss them and pull away...you maintain lip contact between and during each drawn out peck.
from personal experiences and years of study ;):
Close your eyes but stay on target.
Don't eat before it.
Wet your lips.
Slow and steady.
Give time to breath.
No heavy breathing.
No giggling.
Hands either on the chin, the neck or behind the back.
Don't force it.
Don't try to talk.
... PM me if your having problems!
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