Re: Khulla Divorce without the consent of Husband …
btw, mehr is supposed to be paid at the time of wedding…once received, she doesn’t have to pay it back.
however, deferred mehr payment is NOT Islamic to begin with. she will NOT be entitled to the sustenance payment though.
this is the reason why the amount of mehr must NOT be set beyond one’s capability to pay up front. in our culture, the mehr is somehow erroneously considered as a security in the bride’s favour which is absolutely ridiculously high.