none of the diabetics, high cholesterol, or high BP guests complain about the food at my house. And we put lots of oil and have many desserts too. We never use splenda in our desserts. The most we'll do is not add sugar in their tea or use splenda for that. No one complains and they eat everything.
TWe cant keep the menu of entirely diabetic stuff. Its up ti them to keep their off the stuff they are not meant to eat. lol.
I am diabetic but I agree to you wholeheartedly . Everyone should know what they should and should not eat.
At every dawat there will always be something which a diabetic can eat. They will not die if they skip the desserts.