Re: Just wondering
good point. very important to note that what yous is true generally for married men to feel like - very posessive and actually angry when a simple mention of a male friend is brought on.
what can be considered by both sides is this:
one can't substitute rough for the diamond.
husband is has to be only one. & ethically, wife should only one, too.
cherishers might be many.
boy friend in platonic relations is not a healthy thing, since for all we women might know, the person might be selfish and insensitive, as the committment makes them a squeakly mouse. :>
or for all one might know, a man could be a husband to someother woman and violating his wife's right to honesty and loyalty.
but, to bring men to think about what they might be doing wrong in their treatment of women, mentioning a male friend as a threat or to evolke jealousy or envy sounds pretty wrong. same goes for men. :>
so if anyone wanted to speak to me, i will first of all defend his wife if he is married & i will try to patch their marriage by raising a sense of ethics in that man.
and if anyone unmarried approached me, i will absolutely ask him, go ask your Mom & Dad, first!
:>
i do hope there are mature and responsible men in this world