Just need prayers for my marriage!

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Ameen sum Ameen

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Will pray for you,
But its very hard situation when we sit down and wait, wait for any change, wait for some thing good may happen,
and nothing happens and we waste our lives…

My personal advises for you are:

Forget about loving again your husband. Some people are not worthy for it.
i want to say that forget him at all. live within yourself.
Life is not always about husband,
life is more than just husband, its about friends, family members, places, beauty in our universe, beauty within ourselves. Allah’s blessings are countless,
Love Allah, love people around you, you are beautiful love yourself as well.
It is Psyche of men that when they feel a woman is running behind them, they ignore her more and more
please see and understand this video 4 times at least…

Dr Sadaqat Ali, Psychology of Men Post by Zagham - YouTube

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^ unfortunately I have to say, I believe that these are very immature remarks the least.

If I was you I'd ask this on some other place like Ummah forum or something. You have a serious problem and need some serious duas. This forum in my view is a time pass (well, at least that's what I come here for) and I'm not sure how many of us on here even pray regularly. Alongside asking the Creator yourself and getting your parents to do the same, you should get some pious people to make dua and ask for Allah's merci upon you.

I'm by no means a righteous person but InshAllah I'll remember you in my prayers.

And yes, no offence to you GupShuppers!

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you are absolutely right…

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See, that’s the problem when you ask for advices on such important matters on message boards like these. You are bound to get idiotic opinions like this one. Poor Javeria cant see what AbraKadabra is getting at. She’s encouraging her to forget about the husband when AbraKadabra is desperately trying to make things work. Funny enough Javeria is telling us to love Allah but forgetting about His commands about the marriage. Such are the acts of Shaitan who gets the most pleasure when he breaks a husband and wife apart.

Ignore that gibberish and I sincerely pray that things work out for you AbraKadabra. Like one of the posters said you are trying to keep your marriage and that’s already a good thing. May Allah fill your husband’s heart with love for you and may He enable both of you to become the kind of spouses each of you desired.

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everything takes time and marriage is always hard work. the first two or three years is always the HARDEST of a marriage, for anyone whether it be love or arranged. stay confident and hopeful, everything will become clear as it should. if your heart is telling you something, listen to it, and what is meant to be will be. just stay strong.

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Inshallah all will be fine , may ALLAH ease your problems. You will be in my prayers inshallah.

May ALLAH make you and your husband stronger in eeman.

Keep reciting this dua and do a lot of istighfar.

To Allah we belong and unto Him is our return. O Allah, recompense me for my affliction and replace it for me with something better.

And We will surely test you with something of fear and hunger and a loss of wealth and lives and fruits, but give good tidings to the patient, Who, when disaster strikes them, say, “Indeed we belong to Allah , and indeed to Him we will return.” Those are the ones upon whom are blessings from their Lord and mercy. And it is those who are the [rightly] guided. [Qur’an 2:155-157]


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Sending doa'as your way. Insha'Allah everything will work out brilliantly.

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Did I mention to read ya lateefo ya wudoodo?

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Look at my signature for translation. It is best duwa to create love/comfort between the hearts of spouses.


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Aameen to all the dua's. Insha'Allah things will get better between the two of you soon.