Not all Indians go out, party, drink and club. Regardless of that, Im not talking about that age where that is such an obsession. Im talking about a time in your life when you’re married, have a family and a career. I hardly see any Indians indulging in all of that…maybe sometimes but most keep it to an occasional thing.
I still love Pakistanis, no doubt. I will always have a love for the culture and the people.
I just wish we were more accepting of others. One of my ex-coworkers asked me (a few years ago) for a place where he can learn more about Islam. The mosque I sent him to was primarily Pakistani. I ran into him a few weeks later (he was black) and asked him how it went. Did he like it? Did he get his questions answered? Was he able to make friends with some of the people? He replied saying while the Imam was very informative and nice, the majority of the attendees were not very friendly. He felt like no one really wanted to welcome him or make him feel like he was in the right place. Fortunately, he is an educated man and was able to separate Pakistanis and Islam to make a decision for himself and eventually converted.
However, that is said IMHO. Why did he not get received properly? Because he was black? So what?