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ok..let me try and be more clear
i didnt wanted to know what u're looking for in a guy or a girl..
i just asked that lets say u had two option
1. GOOD looks, BAD personality
2. BAD looks, GOOD personality
which one would u pick
i know having both qualities would have been the best thing..but lets say u dont have tht option.
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Still cannot answer it so simply. There can be many other characteristics to take into account. Sorry but it's too trivial to answer because of the depth involved, anyone who does, isn't really being honest with themselves.
Unless you're some naive 16 year old, then I'd say just go for the looks.. I doubt these teenhood crushes last anymore than a week.
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God what an awful question...obviously in both situations your losing out...so just choose neither...you dont want a fit womans thats a ***** and you dont want a nice woman who looks atrocious...
Pick a fit gal whos nice...its really not that tough a question...and if you wanted to know what people prioritise its both...
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^ Welll apparently the only two ppl left alive on this earth are the ugly/nice person and the hot/mean person..
I always said its a person’s character/personality that makes them attractive or unattractive. You can fix a not-so-nice exterior (losing/gaining weight, wearing nice clothes, looking neat/clean) is not that difficult.. fixing a ****ty character is not very feaasible.
but if you wanna be cheated on, beat up, called names, treated like a piece fo ****..go ahead , pick the cute guy.. 
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Yes, that including plastic surgery. Now imagine someone going that far for another, lol.
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I have both: a nice personality and good looks (alhumdullilah); so who’s interested ? 
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Lol reading your post Sara explains the perils that man faces...girls like the good looking guy but ultimately judge him straight away as being a player...good looks means girls like him which means he must be a promiscuous, untrustworty dick...
For your information it is possible to be a good looking person who is a good guy...its just good looking, confident people tend to meet people with ridiculous insecurities...
Lol i was accused of cheating for having lunch with my friend of 5yrs...thats just bull**** female insecurity...nothing else...and thats what drives these men away...girls feel inferior to their man hence their insecuirty...they worry that their man can do better...i wish they would understand that they were picked...
A girl who is secure with herself is able to keep a good looking man...and women who are secure with themselves tend to be good looking girls who feel they are on a par with their man rather than feeling inferior to their man...
Men and women can be dogs and *****es...and thats good looking and ugly people...attractive people just get more stick...
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Ummmmm she gave a choice between good looking guy wiht a BAD personality, and a not so good looking guy with a good character..I even stressed out IF THOSE are the only two ppl left: if u wanna go for hte cute guy, be prepared to be treated badly, coz he is **ugly on the insid.e. **wats so hard to understand abt that?? 
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Ursula Mayes....:)
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Thank you for your advice for us bachaY Nia Aunty… 
aap kaY maaraY huaY teeroN maiN saY dau chaar abb hum bhee maar hee laiN geY 
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I’ll just wait for one whos pretty on both sides
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Can we please make an effort and limit the use of "*********" from posts?
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part of what what Aaana said was,
the second one: is not soo 'pretty' but has a beautiful inside.
she didn't say a totally ugly person with a good personality, some of u people need to read properly before commenting, also most of these 'really pretty girls' when the makeup comes off, they ain't so pretty. So Aaana there's no point asking ppl on here this question, most are too young & don't know what they talking about, believe me, if u ever come accross some1 who has as u described it ' a beautiful inside(very rare)' and have the opportunity to marry that person, take it because even good ppl are hard to find, never mind beautiful ppl. All these ppl who say 'i'll wait for some1 who has both qualities', unless they r lucky, they gonna be waiting for a long time, or at least until they grow up and learn more about the world they live in, also most of these desi guy have no or very little experience with girls outside of their family, theyr'e comments are based on their dreams of marrying bollywood actresses.
Sara's bang on with what she said, most MEN think like her on this topic.
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ChachaKhan...
Thats quite a pessimistic view...there are enough nice people around...nice doesnt neccesarily ensure success...iv met nice girls who i havent worked well with...and iv met not nice girls who obviously i dont want to work it with...
I dont think its young or childish to have looks as a prerequisite...what i understand for myself is that the better looking the girl is the more secure and trusting she is of me...nice girls can be quite insecure aswell which i have found...when your nice you are more modest i suppose and you rate yourself less which is what breeds that insecurity...
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^NbN, we live in different worlds bro, my definition of nice may differ to yours, it also depends, most people are 'nice' when times are good, but u only truly know a person when u go through desperate situations with them, anyway, all i was saying was if u know a persons got a good nature, u don't let them pass by just because they dont blow ure mind in the looks dept.
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well said