a time comes in life, when you want to see how low someone can get,
and sadly that is true now a days.
so have fun living a proper and helathy life yourselves, while others are always second guessing and limiting themselves in making decisions in life,
life long decisions.
maybe it is feeding someone's ego,
maybe someone is being delibrately evil
and maybe, no explanations of somone's attitude, and behaviors are hidden unlike appearances, and therefore, discerning the right from wrong may only happen once one has seen the bad side of others.
life is short, so living it happily requires taking challanges and risks and happily moving towards a sense of personal growth as well as they growth of the people who support one.
repeating mistakes, or duplicating them elsewhere only presents a personal flaw.
getting all the attention may sound and feel good, who is to say, that somrone is being given attention or not, is being left lonely or not, and even worthy if someone is worth your attention or not?
hmmm every person i have jdged as turned out to be the oppisite my best friend is complete opposite of me yet we can spend a whole together and tslk non stop
i have been judged many times with peeple thinkin i am stcuk b****
thats not convention.....
sometimes appearence gives he 100 % correct realization and sometimes the years of relationship will end into mis-judging....
people say that i come accross as an arrogant person who thinks he knows it all..............all of them just don't seem to understand what i'm trying to tell them....:D
we've all got good & bad qualities, some of us try & hide our bad sides & exaggerate our good ones, some even manufacture alternate personalities which don't reflect who they really are to impress or fit in with others, as for judging based on appearence, leaving personal hygeine aside, the way some1 dresses don't mean sh#t, maybe they don't care, not a bad thing at all, i mean you got people dressed in the latest clothes but are totally broke waiting for their next pay check so they can make their next finance payment on 'their' new car. I hate people who try and act really professional, use complex words to impress those theyr'e talking to when basic vocabulary would have done.......totally fake big shot wannabes!......can't stand em.
Everybody thinks differently, places importance on different aspects of themselves differently..............DONT JUDGE!
i used to be judgemental, until one of my closest friend's explained how i would do it not knowingly and since then i have been making sure im NEVER quick to jump to any conclusions about people i don't even know....:)
nice topic girl!
i wl be honest i do tend 2 make a temporary opinion on a person based on how he/she comes up on the first meeting...but i wont go all hyper abt it...i wl give them a benefit of doubt kay oh maybe it was just a bad day for them or maybe they r really like that....however most of the times my observation abt people do come out rite...but i think we shud give them a chance...most of the times a person of introvert nature is mistaken for an ignorant person...it happens 2 me everytime...but this is life...u cant please every1 na...so i dont bother that much.