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the day is sexist anyway
too right it is! nod nod
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why wht u mean ? why its nt working for you , i have an awesume diet plan will share it with you som other time , jst tel me wht kinda dieting r u doing these days ?
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the day is sexist anyway
how is it sexist?
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i drink green tea b4 going to sleep every day
oh and plz do share 
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thats all is ur dieting …
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u dont let it work 
pir tu aor b asaan ho gaya kahi jane ki zaroorat nai parhe gi aap ko 
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kaya wo insaaan e hon ge kaya
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yes pretty much for now… but i am ready to do more 
bohat acha aur caring insaan nod nod
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how is it sexist?
at the expense of sounding a killjoy, id say that its sexist against men because it places an obligation on men to please a woman by buying her gifts, making an effort etc. it makes women feel entitled to something. if there is mutual attraction there isnt any need for this crap.
all this behavior signifies an ineqaulity, one that isnt there any more. the dating game is not like it was 50 yrs ago. women can also approach men and dont need to act like entitled princesses who need to be given a box of chocolate and roses in order to gain affection from them.
i think this gives women more power in the dating game.
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bohat acha aur caring insaan :@: nod nod
mje wo insaan nai bas husband e lag rahe hain :@:
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do more lik wht … ? at least tel me why u need dieting 
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absolutely, it’s the mens’ obligation to do that every day not for just a day…
jokes apart… aren’t both men and women suppose to exchange gifts and please each other… it’s a ‘couple’ thing 
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becuz right now i look like kim kardashian and i want to look more like megan fox so i need to drop at least 6 kgs.
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naak neachi 
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there wont be one ad on tv for mens gifts.
its essentially a day when men are made to feel obligated to ‘buy’ womens affection. men buy gifts because they fear their gf’s will reject them in bedroom. there shoulsnt be a price on sex , romance and intimacy. its not something that women ‘dispense’ or ‘bestow’ upon men. if women want it as badly as men, why men are ingrained by society and the dating culture to earn it from women?
in the west, valnetine day is complete economy. overpriced jewlery, flowers and gift items. A guy is pressured to shell out dough on Valentine’s Day because he doesn’t want to be singled out as a cheap *******, but is a woman cheap if she doesn’t buy gifts? no. sex, affection and intimacy is considered what women give in return.
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there wont be one ad on tv for mens gifts. its essentially a day when men are made to feel obligated to 'buy' womens affection. men buy gifts because they fear their gf's will reject them in bedroom. there shoulsnt be a price on sex , romance and intimacy. its not something that women 'dispense' or 'bestow' upon men. if women want it as badly as men, why men are ingrained by society and the dating culture to earn it from women?
in the west, valnetine day is complete economy. overpriced jewlery, flowers and gift items. A guy is pressured to shell out dough on Valentine's Day because he doesn't want to be singled out as a cheap *******, but is a woman cheap if she doesn't buy gifts? no. sex, affection and intimacy is considered what women give in return.
I see that as marketing strategy rather than sexist... the money leechers do that on every such occasion not just valentines day.
I think the bold part is going a little too far... it might've been like that a few years ago but now niether are men the only bread winners and nor are they expected to empty their pockets to make their women happy - that's one of the rising trends of modern society.
And the materialism has effected both men and women the same. And you'll see so many threads by women in the life 1 section on what to give to their man as a valentines gift... it shows it takes the toll on both the sexes not just the men.
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how much time u have for ths ?
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all the time in the world… but jitna jaldi ho utna acha hay :sid:
how much time do i need
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I see that as marketing strategy rather than sexist... the money leechers do that on every such occasion not just valentines day. I think the bold part is going a little too far... it might've been like that a few years ago but now niether are men the only bread winners and nor are they expected to empty their pockets to make their women happy - that's one of the rising trends of modern society.
And the materialism has effected both men and women the same. And you'll see so many threads by women in the life 1 section on what to give to their man as a valentines gift... it shows it takes the toll on both the sexes not just the men.
the dating game (pre-commitment) is not an even playing field for men and women, and there are many manifestations of it, this V-day is a relatively insignificant one. but lets leave that for another day.
yes youre right, women too buy gifts for men. but far fewer women do that and do so of their own accord. men wont be upset if they arent given any gifts but i firmly beleive a significant number of women would be. in the wast the joke about the guy getting an inappropriate gift for his gf never gets old!