Jawan banday Ji,
You’re better off making tomato sauce out of the tomatoes that will be thrown at you…the omelet may not be able to use the tomatoes to full capacity.
Now to answer your question…people have their preferences for actors/actresses/supermodels/singers, etc. If a husband mentions casually who his fave female celeb is…it’s not a big deal. Now…if he takes it to an extreme…and is obsessed about her…as in he can’t stop talking about her, or gushing about her physical stats…then there’s a problem. In such a scenario…I think the wife should mention her favorite male celebrities (yes, I mean that in plural) and then she should proceed to gush about their assets (strong jaw, broad shoulders, well-built, nice muscles, etc)…with more than equal enthusiasm to the husband.