is this an issue

Lifestyle Relationships
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Just sit down and talk to him about it then.

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You should allow him to have his privacy ... why do you need his passwords anyway??

edit: just read ur answer.
If you feel like that then just confront him!

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:D

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the real q is what issues are there in the relationship? Does he have your pwds and look at your personal correspondence? is this why you asked for his? it is unreasonable for him not to share with you if you have done the same.
sounds like a trust issue
I really hope you work things out
hugs, Glitter xxx

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Get a life!

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change your passwords, if he asks for them then you can ask for his. as for girl, there is a difference b/w talking and flirting. my husband talks with girls at times. Alhamdulilah he doesnt flirts. if your husband is flirting with girls then you need to talk to him.

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hain behan?

if hes cheating on u, confront him.. dont go asking for his passwords lol

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There is no right or wrong answer to your situation. It depends on the dynamic between the couple and the level of trust. Though not a case for a romantically inclined couple but usually siblings have passwords for various websites in case of emergencies or when something is needed. However it should be mutually agreed that when password's are shared they are shared honestly and with the implicit understanding that no snooping will be involved.

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Can he not talk to girls on the phone, when he's out if the house and away from you, and at work? Would you then check his phone or follow him wherever he goes and spy on him? Where is the line drawn? Does having his password guarantee that he wont find some other way to break your trust? Think about this. If he asked for your password and you gave it, then its fair he give you his. If you have doubts, talk to him about it.

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Hopefully, both of you will communicate better with each other and earn trust. That is the issue.

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Does he have your passwords?

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This should end well...

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Whether he gives you his passwords or not does not really matter. If he really is flirting with other girls do you think he would continue doing so with the same account? He would create a new one that you have no clue about and would only do "non-objectionable" stuff on the account you have access to. Does that solve your problem? No, it just transfers it.

That problem can only be solved through talking it out, as many others have suggested here.

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^ yes cuz if the hubby is cheating he will just openly admit to it. :p

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i will give password to my wife if she asks

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Of course he won't. But snooping through his e-mail/Facebook etc. won't really help either.

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you are right but then he should have some solid reason of not giving me pw, facebook is not a professional website and i am his wife,there should be no such privacies between us,moreover once i caught him flirting with a girl on facebook since then i have trust issues but he doesn´t because i maintained my trust,he knows how fair i am.

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Let's say he does give you his passwords...what's to stop him from talking to girls etc at work or going out with them at lunch time etc or after work?

Getting his passwords won't solve the current issues you're having with him.