is that normal?

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sometimes he does..he comes back from office and spend the rest of his time playing games on his cell or using laptop...and i hateeeeeeeeeeeeeee him doing both these acts...

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How old are you?

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handeel pai stop hitting on her. :smack:

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haii :o

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Don’t be jelly. :smack:

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Apne naam se agay 'cute' hatta do.

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God and I’m the opposite if I start a good book I must finish it before sleeping. maybe ina couple of years u see a post by my hubby complaining about his wife who doesn’t sleep until the book is finished :barbie:

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woww i wish i could develop one such hobby…such a relief for you :slight_smile:

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No, not normal. Grow up. It's actually sick. Having an affair isn't a joke... Lives get destroyed ... Get a hobby

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First few years are always difficult. I do understand where your coming from about him not giving you time. I was probably the same with my wife. Keep nagging him.
Forget the affair bit. Next you'll be complaining that your bit on the side isn't giving you time because you want attention all the taime. :)

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I remember having this issue early on in our marriage where I had a full time job and was also running 6 sites (message boards like GS) and a internet radio station...gave them away within a week or 2 when my wife complained. Have you discussed with him not to spend so much time on his cell or laptop?

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yes i discussed it with him..but complaining for the same issue again and again hurts my ego!

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I can tell you something from experience (been married 8 years) ego is the one thing that kills more marriages than MIL's. Jokes aside, you should be persistent with him in telling him that you are not OK with this. He might be thinking that since you are not complaining anymore, its OK to be back to gaming.

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its just that now this thing is hurting me soooo much that i am kind of quiet...i want him to understand this himself...all the time on cell and laptop..its not normal and he must know that i don't like it...again and again begging for his time,don't u think i will lose my self respect..

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I think the problem is that you continue to complain. It's not working, right? So, stop doing it and try a different approach. Does he ignore you for the whole day OR does he only need a couple of hours to himself to unwind when he comes home from work? If it's the latter....then let him have that time to relax in his own way. Not everyone enjoys getting into a conversation or going out/socializing after a long day at work. Now if he's ignoring you for the whole day then you need to discuss the situation with him...don't whine...and see if you can work out a schedule/compromise. Instead of complaining, keep yourself busy with something else......maybe he'll appreciate your flexibility and the space you've given him and miss your company as well; basically don't force it.

You live in Saudi, right? It's tough over there...because you can't drive or get out of the house much...so you're dependent on your husband. I used to live there, so I know what it's like. He also needs to keep your limitations/restrictions in mind and be more flexible...:/

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hai vat a thrad.

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Ouch

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Gora rung te slipper kaalay
ni tu keray pind maklawe jana

:silly:

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Instead you should feel whether HE is having an extra marital affair :hehe: okey okey kiddin’!!

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^

how can anyone have an affair in Saudi Arabia (where she presumably lives) ? what about the logistics of it
Its essentially BYOB system over there.

Someone correct me if I'm wrong.