is love a true feeling or just a need of the circumstances

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but i don't like japanese i like everyone else but not japi, chaini, .....

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:eek: they are so cute and friendly…i spent 2.5months in Japan 5 years ago and it was dreaming time for me, really…one of my best friend is from japan…when I talk with him on the phone my dad even mistake that with a talk with my sis, as we are very close friends!..you don’t know far east asia..they are really nice people

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Who said i hate them ???? i said i just cannot marry someone of that type??? i prefer asian or european or american what ever but not themmm

NO, i am not insulting them not at all

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i thought you did not insult them…but why saying you don’t like them if it is only on the marriage issue…

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probably too much cultural differences, i think.

however, i have heard that they are very nice pplz soft, humble and kind.

By the way, did you visited shrines of muslim saints, there are lot of very famous saints there specially Ajmair sharif mai Khuajja Gharib nawaz (means one who grant poors)

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yes one in Fatepur sikri, and another in gwalior…i plan to visit a few here in dehli…I am here till the 30th:)
I agree with you on the cultural differences…it is a sensible issue when one plan to marry

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If you are not adaptive than surely it counts. However, i have seen few such marriages working nicely!!

dehli is a big city, it takes some time to explore.

have you visited jaipur???

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adaptative? i would say you can’t make compromises all the time otherwise you’ll loose yourself someday…so its a choice that must be thouroughly thought beforehand…:slight_smile:
thatbold sentence is a bit depressing…i hope mine would be nice if i ever marry:)
Jaipur? yes…it is inmy journali think…

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However, i have seen few such marriages working nicely!!

well, when i said few i mean their are not much multi-cultural marriges around, say ratio is 60:40 in favour of marrige working but as you have said earlier it should be planned, discussed, agreed before getting any furture if you are a bad tempered guy/girl chances are not that bright but for sensible persons it shouldn't pose real danger.

Adaptive!! most of my friends say marriage is a compromise but i don't agree i see it as a mutual understanding thing... if you feel like compromise you tend to get frustrated when you are asked to follow some patterns or something you were not into before but if you consider it give and take with happines i.e. mutual understanding than you would not find yourself annoyed.

Jaipur is where by incestors from :-)

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:slight_smile: hopefullyI am sensible..so i shouldnot be afraid of wedding…
Jaipur is also the place where AQis from:) seems people from jaipur are nice,wise and intelligent!!:stuck_out_tongue: great!! i’llpostpics ofthepink city don’tworry

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AQ sorry??? Abdul Qadeer Khan i guess.

thank you for the compliment. i don't mind praise at all :D

It would be thankful to you for the favour :-)

also they are kind hearted, loving and patriotic as well

Is taj Mehal something to look forward to??? is it a romatic palce or what??

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AQis a guppy, his nicknameis Anwaar Qureshi…i don’tknow Abdul Qadeer Khan …I don’t mind praisingwhen it is justified…:slight_smile:
not really taj mahal is not really tolook forward for

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my mistake, Got it apology to mr, AQ aka decent guy :D

ummm, i thought the same.

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what doyou mean AQ aka decent guy…something fishy???
but go toTaj…if you have the opportunity…it’s pretty anyway
where have you ben exceptPK?

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nothing fishy!!! is their something fishy??? i don't think so, well i don't know i read few of posts he seems to be a mature person and quite sensible one. Don't have a proper intorduction though..

One of the hottest place in the world, middle east!!
UAE to be precise, and haan you said you might go to Dubai, its nice place but don't ever plan in summer Novermber/December are good months to visit.. otherwise NO NO

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yes that was my plan spending fewdays in Dubai before going to peshawar in winter…inshallah
fishy,no I was jjoking…cause you nick named him…:smiley: …anyway see you later…

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well let me inform you peshawar winter mein minus degrees mein chala jata hai. tayyari kar kay aana :smiley: It would be like france then, a bit less cold i guess

You can find tour guides and infos from following sites:

http://www.tourism.gov.pk/

http://www.infohub.com/TRAVEL/SIT/sit_pages/Pakistan.html

http://travel.web.pk/tourist_center/org_ptdc.asp

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thank you very much for the infos:) , I will study that as soon as I am back home..Paris men…anyway…minus degrees means peshawar is colder in winter than Paris…bur I like the cold very much…as one danish friend told me, there is no bad weather…only bad clothing:D and i think pashtun people will not be offended to see a woman hidden under big warm clothes:D :smiley:

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^ Indeed, they will dance to see an angrezi larki in sort of parda :D and you'll be having few marriage proposals at your disposal right there :D
you will find many blonds there with frackles, colour hairs and a language that is somewhat similar to french :D

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how come you know that I hade a ristha in India:rolleyes: who told you??? anyway I don’t need lots of marriage proposals, only the right one…:stuck_out_tongue:
what is a prada???
if pashto and french were similar i would knew it…but I am learning pashto and so far I never felt they were close, too bad…