Re: Is it okay if your husband takes longer than you to get ready?
Perhaps a bit irrelevant (wasn't married) but a shot in the dark and well, a true story coming from his own self.
A long time neighbor could not get rid of his 'Popo" until and unless he had chemical brothers playing on in the background, if he was stuck inside all ready to race and the music would stop for some odd reason, he'd had to wait till someone fixed the issue in hand. (May his soul rest in peace though, he died young).
On a different note, I hear many husbands have to deal with their wives taking hour long breaks with their husbands not skipping a beat while they do. In a few rare husband cases, I think it should be alright for the husband to do the same.
There also is the slight possibility of husbands letting Mr. Johnson do the talking (as pointed out by a couple of posters), but you'll have to go a bit deeper to understand where the couples intimacy level stands.
???Kuch samajh nahiN aaya