IS IT ALOWWED IN HINDUISM TO MARRY YOUR NIECE ??

Zaalim · March 23, 2002, 1:53am

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Originally posted by Andhra:
**>>Actually, I have heard of some incident where a Sahaabi discouraged it. Anyone have knowledge about it?<<

Well you got enough experts on Hadith here.

Anyway these practices are dying in both Hindus and Muslims.

It is illiteracy and property considerations mostly!!**
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Glad to see that you blamed it on illiteracy and not Islam.

Gunja-Punga · March 24, 2002, 9:11am

Originally posted by rvikz:
**effect of cousin marriage in pakistan
is discussed in this article.

Cousin-marriages main cause of abnormal births

Cousin-marriages main cause of abnormal births

By A Reporter

ISLAMABAD, Nov 14: Lack of medical facilities, awareness and cousin marriages are main causes of abnormal births in the country.

This was stated by Chief Executive on Science and Technology, Dr Abdul Qadeer Khan at a seminar on “Awareness in Society for the Needs of Special Children”, on Wednesday.

“We have to break away from tradition of “intermarriages” in our society to have a healthy new generation,” he said.

Organized by Care for Special Persons (CFSP) Foundation, participants of the seminar discussed the attitudinal changes toward special children in our society which need to be transformed to make them an active part of our society.

He was satisfied over the attitudinal change towards handicapped in our society. “It is encouraging to see special children accompanying their parents at public places,” Dr Qadeer said.

He said we should see how special children are taken care of in the West. It is forbidden in the West to marry cousins unless certain prescribed medical tests are carried out to rule out hereditary complications.

There should be facilities for medical tests before cousin marriages at private level if not government level to avoid abnormal births in our country.

Chairman CFSP Mr Iqtidar urged on the audience to help organizations working for the welfare of the handicaps. His son suffers from MRC and said, he was aware of the care and supervision required to bring up a handicapped child.

In 1990, there were no institutions in Islamabad from where one could get guidance to deal with special children. In 1992 we established CFSP and despite scarcity of funds we are running it successfully, he said.

Principal CFSP, Ms Hina said, we have 40 students. Most of them belong to low income groups. They do not pay a single rupee, instead we help them in terms of books, cloths and boarding.

We have a physio and speech therapist. Presently our main problem is transport and lack of space. We have only one van that provides pick and drop facility throughout the day which consumes lot of time and fuel, she stated. Children have been refused admission in CFSP due to resource crunch. The foundation plans to make a hospital for special children but this depends on availability of resources, she added.

Dr Laeeq, an expert on special education regretted the apathetic attitude of people towards special children. People need basic knowledge to deal with handicapped people.

The Unicef representative, Ms Khalida Yusuf said children with disabilities need to be handled according to their needs and requirements and the family is responsible to facilitate their learning process.

http://www.dawn.com/2001/11/15/nat32.htm **

THANKS BROTHER INDIAN MUSLIM FOR WELCOMING ME ON THE BOARD- YOU REALLY HAVE A SHARP VISION. MY FIRST POST HAHA!!!
ALSO I WOULD LIKE TO EXTEND MY THANKS TO EVERYONE WHO TAKE TIME TO COMMENT ON THE TOPIC.
BUT WHAT I NOTICED IS THAT THE TOPIC WAS STARTED TO ASK ABOUT THE ELIGIBILITY OF MARRYING ONE’S OWN NEICE IN HINDUISM BUT AS USUAL THE TOPIC IS TEND TOWARDS MUSLIM MARRYING THEIR COUSINS & SO ON.
IN THE STARTING I REQUESTED TO STICK TO THE TOPIC AND AS I EXPECTED OUR HINDU BROTHERN TRIED THEIR BEST TO TILT IT OTHERWAY ROUND & ALL OF A SUDDEN IT BECAME MUSLIM MARRYING THEIR COUSIN.
IT IS WELL KNOWN FACT THAT IN ISLAM IT IS ALLOWED TO MARRY THEIR FIRST COUSIN BUT IS IT KNOWN TO EVERYONE THAT HINDUS MARRY THEIR SISTER’S DAUGHTER ???& ALSO THEIR AUNT’S ( FATHER’S SISTER) DAUGHTER. YES THIS IS A COMMON PRACTICE IN HINDUS FROM JHUNG AREA SPECIALLY.

ganjay se panga na lay

Mirza_Ruswa · March 24, 2002, 9:39am

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Originally posted by Gunja-Punga:
**Will Mr. Andhra reply plz.

is it allowed in hinduism to marry your sister's daughter??

As far as i know it is a common practice in Tamilian hindus?

please stick to the topic.

**
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Array bhaee gunja-punga yeah aap ne kiya ghazab kar rahay hain.
BHARI BAZM MAIN RAAZ KI BAAT KEHDI
BAdAY BE ADAB HO SAZA CHAHTAY HO??

Bhaee yeah to hamen bhi nahee maloom thha aur saari zindagee apnay hindu doston k taanay suntay rahay that u muslims dont even spare your cousins. Lekin yahan to muaamila uss se bhi aagay hai. These dont even spare their neice.

Aapka shukriya ka aap ne yeah maloomat hum tak pahonchaee.

huwe mar k ham jo Ruswa
huwe kiyuN na gharq e darya

Indian_Muslim_1 · March 25, 2002, 10:09pm

LOL

http://www3.pak.org/gupshup/smilies/ok.gif

devil123 · March 25, 2002, 10:16pm

[quote]
Originally posted by Mirza Ruswa:
** Array bhaee gunja-punga yeah aap ne kiya ghazab kar rahay hain.
BHARI BAZM MAIN RAAZ KI BAAT KEHDI
BAdAY BE ADAB HO SAZA CHAHTAY HO??

Bhaee yeah to hamen bhi nahee maloom thha aur saari zindagee apnay hindu doston k taanay suntay rahay that u muslims dont even spare your cousins. Lekin yahan to muaamila uss se bhi aagay hai. These dont even spare their neice.

Aapka shukriya ka aap ne yeah maloomat hum tak pahonchaee.

**
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[This message has been edited by devil123 (edited March 25, 2002).]

Gunja-Punga · March 26, 2002, 4:46am

[quote]
Originally posted by Mirza Ruswa:
** Array bhaee gunja-punga yeah aap ne kiya ghazab kar rahay hain.
BHARI BAZM MAIN RAAZ KI BAAT KEHDI
BAdAY BE ADAB HO SAZA CHAHTAY HO??

Bhaee yeah to hamen bhi nahee maloom thha aur saari zindagee apnay hindu doston k taanay suntay rahay that u muslims dont even spare your cousins. Lekin yahan to muaamila uss se bhi aagay hai. These dont even spare their neice.

Aapka shukriya ka aap ne yeah maloomat hum tak pahonchaee.

**
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Mohtram Mirza jee
Saza to saari zindagi jhaili hai lekin be adabi ki nahee balkay laa ilmi ki.

its quite easy to raise finger on others
Lekin uss se pehlay agar apnay app ko bhi dekh liya jaye to behtar hota hai. bas yeahi baat main tamam logo tak pohnchana chahta thha.
Aap shayer mizaj shakhsiyat maloom hotay hain leejiye aap ki nazr aik she'r Bahdur shah "Zafar" ka :

Na thi haal ki jub hamain apnay khabar rahay dekhtay oron k aib o hunar

pari apni buraaiyo par jo nazar to nigaah main koee bura na raha.

Shukriya

ganjay se panga na lay

Mirza_Ruswa · March 26, 2002, 5:05am

Indian muslim bhaee aap ka shukriya aap ne hamaray jawaab ko pasand farmaya!

devil 123 saheb
Bad qismati se main aap ka comment nahee dekh saka, iss se pehlay k main ussay dekhta aap ne usse edit balkay delete kar diya bahar haal agar woh meri nuwafiqat main thha to shukriya aur agar mukhalifat main thha to aap ki dil aazari k liye muaafi chahta hoon.

guja punga bhaee aap ne kiya husb e haal sher likha hai. Lagta sher aur shayeri par gehri nigaah hai aapki. bohat khoob.

huwe mar k ham jo Ruswa
huwe kiyuN na gharq e darya