You’ve been watching too much TV to get this idea of what men are…i think its preetty disrespectful to call em kids/babies just because their wives take care of them. When you love someone you do whatever you can for them simply because you love them not because u think they’re helpless and completely dependent (like babies are)… There are plenty of men who can survive very well on their own, they’re not starving or living in pig-stys but since they have wives/gfs, they take care of those things..its not a big deal. Now if there is some guy who is a scatterbrain but his wife is super organized (or vice versa) thats a diff situation..thats more of a personality-issue rather than all men being helpless…