Insecure women

[Afridi786]

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@MehnazQ

Lots of people are irritating, not just girls on this site but plenty of boys too.

i know thats aimed at me…

[Impulse]

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@Afridi786

i know thats aimed at me…

I wanted to ask you something…
I remember yesterday you said to me that I “show off” about my fiance…

can you please explain what you mean?

the ONLY times i have mentioned him is when the topic is about relationships etc…and its relevant to the topic…OR if a guy tries flirting with me then I tell him im already taken. Apart from that I have never talk about my fiance. I mean I never talk about him in a random conversation about other topics…so can you tell me why you said that? do you get jealous even if I mention my fiance in a relevant thread which is talking about relationships/partners/significant others.?

is this an example of what chunnis talking about?

[Muzna]

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@PhatBalongri

I know who you are talking about..funny how she can talk crap about whoever she wants but the min someone says anythying about her messed up life she starts crying and calling everyone names and how two faced they are.

whatever anyone writes in their journals is their business.
the minute someone enters that journal and decides to post derogatory comments in it, they are provoking.

I hope that much is clear.

[saimanyc]

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I don't see anything positive coming out of this thread whatsoever. I realize Chunni is venting but what's that got to do with the rest of us who don't have problems with any women in GS? Like many said, live and let live. If anyone is making any personal attacks on you then you can have a mod know about it but otherwise... time to grow a thicker skin. Don't let people on the internet affect you that much.

[Sara516]

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[Afridi786]

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@Impulse

I wanted to ask you something.... I remember yesterday you said to me that I "show off" about my fiance.....

can you please explain what you mean?

the ONLY times i have mentioned him is when the topic is about relationships etc....and its relevant to the topic......OR if a guy tries flirting with me then I tell him im already taken. Apart from that I have never talk about my fiance. I mean I never talk about him in a random conversation about other topics........so can you tell me why you said that? do you get jealous even if I mention my fiance in a relevant thread which is talking about relationships/partners/significant others.?

is this an example of what chunnis talking about?

i only said that cuz several people have said that about you in multiple threads, anyways plz maaf kardo.

[Dushwari]

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Chuni, who is annoying you?

It is true that some people can be and may be jeolous. but, i have learnt that

we should not curse back or shaow that we are annoyed.

some peoplejust do not know how insecure they themselves are, if they act arrogant or rude.

best,

dush

@ChuNNi MuNNi

Since iv'e joined this forum ive come across so much *****yness its unbelievable.

first i just ignored it and tried to be nice but im one of those people that cant live without responding.

a couple of girls are really annoying me at the moment especially the ones that get jelous of other people's happiness, I mean if you wanna display your whole life in your journal expect critism for gods sake this is a majority muslim forum.

dont expect people to suck up to you or take your poop coz you hate desi's or you had issues when you were a kid with your parents...

anyways just my 2 cents

wooooh

[Impulse]

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@Afridi786

i only said that cuz several people have said that about you in multiple threads, anyways plz maaf kardo.

next time try not to take second hand information :) and dont worry I have 4given u:)

[Muzna]

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Sara,

When someone decides to post crap about anyone in a public place (yes, journals are public unless they are marked private) they say more about themselves than they do about that person they wish to criticize.

Always consider taking the high road. And if you have sown your seeds well, then you will reap a healthy harvest. In other words, those who know you well, will not be affected by such banter.

[Sara516]

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[Muzna]

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please clarify your question.....
I don't understand it.

[nia_khan]

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You what the problem is - the way we type things here many of us wont even dare to sya those things in person

But sad thing is we forget that Allah watches everything

If one realize that i am positive they will think twice before critisizing others

It has nothing to do with insecurity it has to do with lack of maturity many of us on gupshup Open our mouth first and then think once we are done saying what we have too. There are very few people who actually think before typing something on these forums...

[LegallyBrown]

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@nia_khan

You what the problem is - the way we type things here many of us wont even dare to sya those things in person

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Not true..

I say whats on my mind on peoples faces in real life too

The two guppies that i’ve met will vouch for that.

I’d rather say it on a persons face then be nice to them in person and go ***** bout them behind their back.

Its got nothing to do with levels of maturity.

Its called being nondiplomatic.

I hate diplomatic people, thay make me uncomfortable.

As for insecurity, each and everyone of us has one aspect of her life that we are insecure bout.

Mine lies with my two girls.

Some ppl are insecure bout their looks

Other bout relationships, jobs, family and what not.

To accept our faults helps us become a better person.

Chunni Begum just wanted to be a TP

[Puchi_Kuchi]

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well some ppl annoy me to best just iggy em

[ChuNNi_MuNNi]

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no i wasnt being a TP, look I have nothing against you LB, but you do put others down a lot. I have noticed this throughout gupshup and sometimes those people cant stick up for them selves, you have this nasty vindicitive spiteful streak that shows from time to time like you really wanna hurt the second person.
seriously it aint big and it aint clever.....

[ashtray]

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@Khumar

i find the guys here most irritating.

Lesbian Alert!!!

[ashtray]

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@Afridi786

i know thats aimed at me…

Ladies and gentlemen, let me present Sara516 with moochaiN(i wanted to say something else lekin khair have to keep it pg).

[sweetpip]

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@Sahar02

Take a few days off from this board, enter the real world, you'll realize you've got plenty of other things to ponder, other than annoying people and what they do with their time.

I'm serious -- this site can be addictive, sometimes you just need to remove yourself and chill.

This is so true, that i could not have put it better myself. I personally think of GS as place to come to chill out and forget about a real-life for a while. Nothing should be taken seriously (after all most of the people on GS I don't even kno - so y would i care what they think of me!). It is a place where one come to for advice etc, but y do we resort to insulting each other online? So, as sahar says i'm sure there's more important things to worry about.

[Muzna]

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@nia_khan

You what the problem is - the way we type things here many of us wont even dare to sya those things in person

But sad thing is we forget that Allah watches everything

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Not true at all.
I have always maintained that if you can’t say it in person, don’t say it here.
And whatever I post, I stand behind

So yeah…perhaps “many of us” won’t dare to say them. But that only makes the “few of us” who do and will, stick out like sore thumbs.

[Femme_Fatale]

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After discussing with co-mods I am re-opening this thread for discussion. So long as all of you can refrain from getting personal and participate with civility we shouldn;t have a problem.