my mother in law pretends to be very nice but as I have come to learn in the 5 year of marriage to my husband that she always has a hidden agenda. I have also come to learn that no matter what I do I’ll neverrrrrrr be able to please them so at this point I need to stop trying. I just need to be extremely confident about myself and let everything she says roll over my head and this is easier said then done.
Good luck with everything Sahar.
A key to a good relationship with MIL is "in one ear and out the other". Don't give much importance to what they have to say.