Importance of Lingerie in Relationships

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who's talking about perfect figures?

dressing nicely, inside the bedroom and out, makes you feel good and confident, which is always a turn on. in fact, appropriate bedroom wear is useful to enhance your good bits and cover up the bits you dislike.

and hareem, yeh, a husband is going to go about his business if he wants halal relations, regardless of how his wife looks. but it's delusional to think making yourself look nice wouldn't go amiss on occasion.

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Hey I'm a certified chaskaybaaz, how could I be a woman?

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Grrrr those big pointy cone bras :nahi:

which reminds me HOW do women buy bras there? I mean do they really just go into the bazaar where they’re hanging down and men are selling them and just buy them? and tell them their size? :konfused: That just sounds so…wrong :frowning:

Lingerie… good :k:

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Well, Nomi asked how important the role of lingerie is in relationship and my point was that it's not too important coz you have to get rid of it anyway.

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^yeh but a present is so much more exciting when you have to unwrap it.

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I think how sharif a husband be, lingerie or whatever night dress the wife wears will please him. And why not? Husband and wife, inside their bedroom have all rights to enjoy their life. Hareem, lingeries might lose their attractions and “usefulness” after handful years of marriage because things become more sort of businesslike but from the initial days of marriage perspective, yes lingerie is a big turn on :k: :k:

Nomi, buy tons for your future wife :wink:

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Im curious, at what point do things become “businesslike”? 2 years? 3 years? :konfused:

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I don’t know about others but I remember getting my bras and chuddies from this shop near Gulf (In karachi) where they have a closed shop owned by women and they even have women selling them and take sizes to help you buy your size, though they sell those same pointed cloth bras but the prices are quite expensive (and I say that since all the thayla walas too sell the same stuff except theirs isn’t boxed and its sold outside in front of everyone).

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I have no idea Im married for less than a year and have spent 3 months with him altogether lol but a wild guess is maybe after 5 years and on when your kids grow up there are many other occupations than having and wearing a collection of lingerie.

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One day :hehe:

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hehehhehehe can’t stop laughing! :cb: LOL

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:cb::rotfl:

I am wondering WHY and HOW you boys know about what these bras and chaddies look alike when you are not married?! :hmmm: Hmmm :@:.

:bailan:

  1. So a wife is a present? :5:

  2. Nowadays the wrappings cost more than the gift itself, which i am not sure how acceptable it would be?! :hmmm::kiss:

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Not many answers to part 1 and 2 :hmmm:

I don’t know… not much i guess…

Wedding forum plz :halo:

Just having intellectual discourse :wink:

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I thought most men look at underclothes as speed breakers (gaari breakers)...

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But what if you already know what the present is inside? Mostly presents are not known and the wrappers are thrown away. :wink:

Some women try to use them as accelerators.


Useless pieces of cloth made expensive for people who cannot be excited to see each other in simple clean clothes.

People eat smelly oysters at high price too…:hehe:

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  1. I don't think guys and gals from our culture discuss lingerie befor marriage. It's usually the family khalas and phupis and bajis who buy stuff for the bride.
  2. I think the girls are now becoming aware of the options.
  3. It is imporant to dress well in every respect.

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We don't exactly live in cardboard boxes.

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:ASA:And i hope not in lingere store either :p

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Oh, I know!!!

But BEST MOMENT EVER, when I saw a guy run through bunch of pointy bras hanging in anarkali bazaar. :omg:

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lol…reminds me when a bra’s hooks got tangled into my headscarf while browsing the lingerie department in Debenhams. That was so embarrassing.