Re: “I’m not ready for hajj”
I agree with pinks here. That is exactly what people mean when they say that I am not ready for Hajj. What I think is that Hajj gives you chance to wipe off your past sins, but in no way it is expecting to you change or not that your Hajj will not be accepted if you dont start wearing hijab. We all are humans and just one 5 day event can definitely change a panjabi movie hero from beghairat to jayalaa ghairtamand, but normal human beings take time to change as it takes time for reality to sink in.
having said that, I strongly recommend everyone to go and perform Hajj while you are young. I saw so many old people and tough time they go through to perform all the rituals. Yes you think you may not be ready for hajj this year, but do you have a guarantee that you will be alive next year? DO you think that you can give this excuse to Allah on the judgment day that O Allah, I was mentally not ready till 2012 and then you called me in 2013 so its not my fault.