Re: If your closest sibling is getting married…
I wouldnt call it obsessive but when you are close to a sibling who is with you all the time and with who you share everything, you tend to feel a right over him/her. Maybe it is the first marriage in the house which is why i am taking it a little hard but when the time comes it will all be good. Also, the change is not felt much if you are already married.
Its not just the sister,the change is felt by mothers as well which is why they go the other direction sometimes. E.g. a son has a habit of kissing his mama good night and suppose for some reason he doesnt do it afterwards, although the change is so minute it is a change which is why most women find difficulties adjusting. The most default taken-for-granted kind of things start to change.