If your closest sibling is getting married........

[Maham]

Re: If your closest sibling is getting married…

@NomiCA

There are two posssibilities..

1. Your brother continues to be more of less same in his attitude towards you guys…and basically his wife joins in the family and you can do all things together…(except the private time offcourse)…basically depends on your bhabi…

THIS IS USUALLY NOT THE CASE

you won’t have much trouble coping with it…because not too much of a drastic change will occur..

2. Your bhaabi is a private person..don’t want to join in to your family…and only wants to deal with her husband…and doesn’t like sharing stuff with you guys (THIS IS MORE LIKELY)

In this case…it will be tough for you…but you just need remember that he is married…and basically you can assume your brother (as he used to be) is no more… so just tell yourself…he is married…and gone…(just like you would if your sister was married off and went away)…

Aapka kaun sa wala plan hai lolz.

Btw, very well said.