They do not need your pity. Oh btw many marriages last longer than 25 years. You will wake up to see the person you have learnt to love and care about! In most cases and normally you do build an affinity towards the person you live 24/7 with. So do you mean you wish to wake up to someone else everyday? Is that what you are implying? Sleeping in the same routine, is there anything bad about it? It is so easy for you guys, you do not need to worry about sleeping routines that much but it is harder for girls i.e wives! get up early, make breakfast and then take care of the husband’s needs etc etc… Some people actually like doing that. And who is asking you to get married? If you do not like getting married then do not but do not give weird ideas to others. Did they imply anywhere that they are unhappy? It is their life, their choice. Do not bring Allah in to it, Allah mian actually endorses marriage and it is a pak saaf rishta between husband and wife. And would you care to explain the “totally against marriage in Pakistan” please?