Ideal time and age of marriage ?

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so why is it you’re still single? :halo:

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one cant always have what they want :bummer:

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^^ we rarely say what we really want
we rarely know what we want
what we fake to want is allways easy to tell but not the other way round

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when ur mature enough to handle it!

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When you find the right person, and when you are willing to do what it takes to make it work.

Marriages can happen much later than what some of you girls are saying. Remember, Khadija (R) married at 40. Yep, but Islamiyat goes out the window when we talk about marriage. We're so influenced by the desi mentality of how only younger girls make fit wives.

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Fatima r.a was married around 18 to 22. Ayesha r.a was said to be married at even younger age.Islam didnot put any boundaries on it, circumstances play a big part in any individual's decision. So i don't see any sense in your post.

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So, am I to take it from your post that we should only look to Fatima and Aisha (R's), and not Khadija (R)?

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no honey you are to take from the post that anytime after the puberty is a good time. also try not to mis use religious references. every body has personal preferences but using one example from islamic history to state your personal example is smarter than others is not highly smart.

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Marriagable age are made from heaven. whenever one desitny time have come they'll get married regardless of age/time and with who.
But in my opion for girls should be between 22-26 and for guys around 25-30yrs of age.

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So true. you are so smart:clown:

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Are you 30 yet?
oh i mean ready

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Yeah my fiance is about 6 years younger then me! I am 25 and he will turn 19 in September. Age doesnt matter, I think it is the maturity and the fact that they have stability. I dont give a rats ass about age.

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^its so good to know that guys can mature early too. lately i've just seen hopeless scenarios.

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^^ lol...
tell me abt it... my 29 yr old fiance can still be a stubborn 15 yr old when the mood strikes... sigh