i would like thank everyone in gupshup for their advice!!

strawberry2 · July 23, 2009, 2:00am

dat makes me feel good :) heheh

McPendo · July 23, 2009, 2:12am

What i mean is why do be people get attached with people and then cry when they leave i mean you shouldn't even think about any one just be alone. Thats much better.

redvelvet · July 23, 2009, 2:13am

Re: i would like thank everyone in gupshup for their advice!!

Hey Strawberry,

Good for you for having the courage to end this rishta and not submitting yourself to a life of misery and disrespect. You should be proud of yourself. Now you can use your experience to guide other girls who are in the same situation that you used to be in ;)

So, what happened with the guy's parents? His dad was good friends with your dad, right? So are they still friends even after the rishta ended?

keeni · July 23, 2009, 2:24am

Re: i would like thank everyone in gupshup for their advice!!

INSHAALLLHA u ll find the best guy , who actually respect u and love u , for what u are

strawberry2 · July 23, 2009, 8:53pm

iduno if ur talking abt wat ur going through or my suitation.. but mine was different. i went to pakistan last summer and all of sudden i came bak engaged. i did as my rents pleased because i knew if it makes them happy.. i will be happy. it better to get duas than budduas!!

i personally think no1 can spend their life alone.. dats why Allah made it this way. at a point in life u need som1 to b there for .. to listen to u and respect u... well i do :)

McPendo · July 23, 2009, 9:32pm

Re: i would like thank everyone in gupshup for their advice!!

^ I think you can definitely live alone and be happy as well.

strawberry2 · July 23, 2009, 9:39pm

umm.. i guess they are still friends. i know it wunt be like how it used to be but they still try to be like before. our parents still talk how they used to before so everything is good now.

Girls i realize it now that how much better off i am by making this decsion!!

strawberry2 · July 23, 2009, 9:40pm

so ur saying u never gonna get married nd live alone...

McPendo · July 23, 2009, 9:42pm

ahahahah are you crazy and miss out on the fun? No im saying its theoretically possible to live alone and keep sane at the same time a lot of men have done it. Certainly a lot of women in Pakistan do it because they get old and never get married so yeah! Its possible.