Re: I want to be with you, but I dont want the label of a relationship
i dont know how you can assume all that, redvalvetji. firstly we dont know its a he. even if it is, we dont know he doesnt want romance, he just doesnt want a tag. she doesnt even seem to have a page. there is no indication of any pressure.
you are being harsh on her neighbour. its making me sad.
Re: I want to be with you, but I dont want the label of a relationship
i dont know how you can assume all that, redvalvetji. firstly we dont know its a he. even if it is, we dont know he doesnt want romance, he just doesnt want a tag. she doesnt even seem to have a page. there is no indication of any pressure.
you are being harsh on her neighbour. its making me sad.
I searched her history just now and I can't seem to find that thread; perhaps it has been deleted...though my inbox indicates OP's the same person. I clearly remember she had posted a few weeks back about her bf not wanting a romantic relationship anymore. They did have one before, but he wanted to focus on his career goals and he was getting frustrated by the problems they were having. It wasn't a very healthy relationship. She tried various ways to get him to change his mind; compromising her self-respect. Op was advised by several members to back off and leave him be. That's why I mentioned that she can't pressure him to feel otherwise. My current response, Queer Ji, is based on my recollection of her previous thread.