Re: I moved to Karachi
Oh, the dangers of dating in Pakistan! I believe this vid was shot in karachi. Check out the hilarious situation at 4:04 (BUT WATCH THE WHOLE THING!).
theres a popular hang called T2F the second floor
oh plz that place is like a boring library with the most pathetic food available. steer clear of it!
Re: I moved to Karachi
Oho im not a karachite! just know people hang out there quite a bit. if you have suggestions post away!
Re: I moved to Karachi
Dammit.
I dont think bad of those who live in Pakistan, but God help me if one more idiot says Pakistani girls/guys are more pure and moral and religious…
Then again I see the point of view of thsoe who are bothered by it. :hinna:
Re: I moved to Karachi
Espresso at zamzma. I have had 2 guys give me their numbers there long time ago but they turned out be real losers :(
And random house parties in defence but for that you have to know someone to get an invite.
Re: I moved to Karachi
Ya must have moved , either because of your job or studies ? and if you cant make friends at either place at work or college ] - then only the lord can help you bruv !
Re: I moved to Karachi
omg, qiyamat ki nishaanian 
pehlay log chup chup key kertay thay…they had some sort of fear, then the Internet, and now open invites.
OK cool.
controlling myself otherwise i may need to give myself a warning
Thank you. 
But I am afraid the horse is out of the barn.
Re: I moved to Karachi
How do you get a GF in Karachi? By taking the first flight out to Lahore.
It is the intention of thread which should be looked at.
Off course everything goes on anywhere.
So next question could come: What are the best places to do hanky panky in a city.
Where to buy charas? Off course charas is being used too somewhere in the city. So nothing wrong in asking? Right?
One can be open, say things and discuss anything if the intention is right and words are chosen correctly.
The argument here which is going on is similar to as below:
~A man goes in the park naked.
Someone objects.
He says: " Don't act holier than thou, as if you have never been naked before"
And no I am not trying to act holier than anyone here..;-)
**100% agree
@janaan
even if you have posted this in some US forum
"I have recently moved to NY and I need a GF and I am rich"
I can bet most of the members will be calling u a "LOSER"
**
**100% agree
@janaan even if you have posted this in some US forum "I have recently moved to NY and I need a GF and I am rich" I can bet most of the members will be calling u a "LOSER" **
maybe i should have phrased it some other way. by the way when i mentioned in lived in a posh area, i did not want to tell you people that i was rich. i just wanted to see if i could go to places in that locality.
Re: I moved to Karachi
What do you mean by “go to places?” Where are you looking to go, and what are you planning to find there? 
Hell man,who owes this forum...Cheap people are increasing in number(some indians n pakistanis)....Plz get a life, Sick people make multiple ids, show several identities, do weired stuff ....im sure some people here are not normal.they canbe really dangerous.
Re: I moved to Karachi
sameenji, our society in general is changing, like really really changing ...so the forum just represents what's going on outside. Nothing new.
Ya must have moved , either because of your job or studies ? and if you cant make friends at either place at work or college ] - then only the lord can help you bruv !
these are public forums so i can not explain what kind of situation is here. but i think it would be suffice to say that i dont want to date someone from work, because if it goes all wrong, then it haunts you in the workplace. I had once complimented a woman at work and she said that she was not comfortable with compliments. but that was not all. she had told every woman at work that she had given me that treatment. for the record i said " you look great in these clothes". I have also talked about another thing that had happened with a work colleague. and i have put the whole story here.
I think you are getting the wrong message from what i write here. perhaps i should never turn to people here for advice. because one thing is that i can not put down everything on these boards. and secondly, in true desi fashion you start making up assumptions.
I want to discover new people. why should i limit my world to work? and for that reason i had asked for an advice.
I have a lot of friends. but i am not looking for friends, guys or ladies. but i keep friendships and relationships in separate baskets and that is how it should go.
I have seen people who, when interested in a woman, would call her a sister and meet her and start dating her. i have seen that numerous times. and i hate that. I would never call someone a sister for the purpose of coming near her and dating her. i think that is detestable. but people in the desi community do that. and that happens a lot. so much for the morality here.
If i am being candid about what i want, what is wrong with that?
these are public forums so i can not explain what kind of situation is here. but i think it would be suffice to say that i dont want to date someone from work, because if it goes all wrong, then it haunts you in the workplace. I had once complimented a woman at work and she said that she was not comfortable with compliments. but that was not all. she had told every woman at work that she had given me that treatment. for the record i said " you look great in these clothes". I have also talked about another thing that had happened with a work colleague. and i have put the whole story here. I think you are getting the wrong message from what i write here. perhaps i should never turn to people here for advice. because one thing is that i can not put down everything on these boards. and secondly, in true desi fashion you start making up assumptions. I want to discover new people. why should i limit my world to work? and for that reason i had asked for an advice. I have a lot of friends. but i am not looking for friends, guys or ladies. but i keep friendships and relationships in separate baskets and that is how it should go. I have seen people who, when interested in a woman, would call her a sister and meet her and start dating her. i have seen that numerous times. and i hate that. I would never call someone a sister for the purpose of coming near her and dating her. i think that is detestable. but people in the desi community do that. and that happens a lot. so much for the morality here. If i am being candid about what i want, what is wrong with that?
Buddy I totally respect your view ... it might not be the same as mine but then again you didn't say anything bad about my views on life so who m i to judge you ... I guess you can go out with friends and see places and that way you can meet new people and if you like someone i'm sure you can be friends with them without making the whole sister scene ... I haven't been to karachi in a very very veryyy long time so can't help you there ... but i think that should give you a start
these are public forums so i can not explain what kind of situation is here. but i think it would be suffice to say that i dont want to date someone from work, because if it goes all wrong, then it haunts you in the workplace. I had once complimented a woman at work and she said that she was not comfortable with compliments. but that was not all. she had told every woman at work that she had given me that treatment. for the record i said " you look great in these clothes". I have also talked about another thing that had happened with a work colleague. and i have put the whole story here. I think you are getting the wrong message from what i write here. perhaps i should never turn to people here for advice. because one thing is that i can not put down everything on these boards. and secondly, in true desi fashion you start making up assumptions. I want to discover new people. why should i limit my world to work? and for that reason i had asked for an advice. I have a lot of friends. but i am not looking for friends, guys or ladies. but i keep friendships and relationships in separate baskets and that is how it should go. I have seen people who, when interested in a woman, would call her a sister and meet her and start dating her. i have seen that numerous times. and i hate that. I would never call someone a sister for the purpose of coming near her and dating her. i think that is detestable. but people in the desi community do that. and that happens a lot. so much for the morality here. If i am being candid about what i want, what is wrong with that?
Maybe we, at least I am misunderstanding you, and I apologize for that.
If you are looking to date a girl in Karachi, I guess the most decent way of doing it would be to socialize with your family and naturally run into a girl who would like to know you as well. Somehow meeting strangers gives a wrong impression of your intentions. The kind of girls who are so easily available in special places aren't really looking for longeterm relationships and I'm sure you are wise enough to know that. Our culture is such that girls from good families and/or values like to protect their reputations and don't like to be "set up" for "dating"... at least that is how it was a few years ago...
these are public forums so i can not explain what kind of situation is here. but i think it would be suffice to say that i dont want to date someone from work, because if it goes all wrong, then it haunts you in the workplace. I had once complimented a woman at work and she said that she was not comfortable with compliments. but that was not all. she had told every woman at work that she had given me that treatment. for the record i said " you look great in these clothes". I have also talked about another thing that had happened with a work colleague. and i have put the whole story here. I think you are getting the wrong message from what i write here. perhaps i should never turn to people here for advice. because one thing is that i can not put down everything on these boards. and secondly, in true desi fashion you start making up assumptions. I want to discover new people. why should i limit my world to work? and for that reason i had asked for an advice. I have a lot of friends. but i am not looking for friends, guys or ladies. but i keep friendships and relationships in separate baskets and that is how it should go. I have seen people who, when interested in a woman, would call her a sister and meet her and start dating her. i have seen that numerous times. and i hate that. I would never call someone a sister for the purpose of coming near her and dating her. i think that is detestable. but people in the desi community do that. and that happens a lot. so much for the morality here. If i am being candid about what i want, what is wrong with that?
well no need to be all stirred up - people are making assumptions as you were not smooth in your first post - and matey bhoy you cant hold people 's talk and guppies' fingers :)
what all I gather from your little work related story - that you just need a cozy corner and you arent intended to go for a long term relationship - its more or less hanky panky stuff - ya need , innit ?
what i presume and am very much rightly doing it after reading your posts ! you just need some one as an alternative option for your lady palm and her five sisters .
now there are two routes of doing it - choice is all yours ! either go for the easy peasy one or find a hard nut the crack :) and make sure that nut aint yours :)
sameenji, our society in general is changing, like really really changing ...so the forum just represents what's going on outside. Nothing new.
What is "really really changing?"
No its not, the only difference is some jerks have showed up with multiple fake ids
Espresso at zamzma. I have had 2 guys give me their numbers there long time ago but they turned out be real losers :( And random house parties in defence but for that you have to know someone to get an invite.
well any idiot who gives away there number to u in a cafe wud be a loser. no surprise there. and random house parties in defence r full of even bigger losers - ppl trying to act cool by drinking and smoking.
karachi is not a place to meet ppl in random places. u have to know them from where u work, live or study. otherwise u end up with a freak