Re: i know this is a embrassing questionn but i need help!
plus, if you get preggo before you're ready, what will you do? you're going to be stuck with a baby you're not ready for and a husband you can't even communicate with! think of the consequences and have a talk with him. and really, its always better to protect yourself than rely on someone else to- plus condoms aren't really that effective on their own-- you gotta use a backup. talk to your doc about the pill- there are so many kinds now and you will find one that suits you.
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usually girl keep a next guy as backup, in case things don't work out.