Wait...... may be I read this too quickly and missed a detail. Whe does she want you to bring your backpack and not put her stuff in one of her own backpacks? I understand that she wants you there for moral support, just don't get the backpack part???
Secondly is her husband's name on the locker where she wants to move the stuff from?
That's the part I don't get. All she said was to bring my backpack. I'm not sure if she's also using one or just wants mine or who is going to be carrying it. It feels weird asking that.
About the locker, I asked and she said she's the only one who has the key (and the bank of course). I asked if she thinks he might have made a copy and she said she put something to mark the box (an envelope or something) to make sure nothing in the box is moved and she'll find out if it does and nothing had been moved so he hasn't gotten around to opening the box this far which means he doesn't have the key yet.
I'll just take her word for it. She's not a dumb person and knows what she is doing normally.
Don't have a brother, dad's passed away and uncles/fiance in another state. Wouldn't like be a little easier sigh. The only man she's got is the lame excuse for a husband.
I was talking about myself. Her family is in Pak and she moved here after she got married, so it's just her husband and in-laws (who can't be trusted) here.
That's the part I don't get. All she said was to bring my backpack. I'm not sure if she's also using one or just wants mine or who is going to be carrying it. It feels weird asking that.
About the locker, I asked and she said she's the only one who has the key (and the bank of course). I asked if she thinks he might have made a copy and she said she put something to mark the box (an envelope or something) to make sure nothing in the box is moved and she'll find out if it does and nothing had been moved so he hasn't gotten around to opening the box this far which means he doesn't have the key yet.
I'll just take her word for it. She's not a dumb person and knows what she is doing normally.
Copies of bank locker keys cannot be made. Bank gives you two keys to the locker , my wife has both one in her key chain and the other in our home safe , if you lose any of those keys bank charges you 25 dollars or more when you return just one key if you return that locker , I know from personal experience.
Copies of bank locker keys cannot be made. Bank gives you two keys to the locker , my wife has both one in her key chain and the other in our home safe , if you lose any of those keys bank charges you 25 dollars or more when you return just one key if you return that locker , I know from personal experience.
good to know. My mom knows the whole dealio with lockers, never dealt with it myself. So she has two keys then. She did say she went to check a few days ago to make sure everything is in place and nothing had been touched.
good to know. My mom knows the whole dealio with lockers, never dealt with it myself. So she has two keys then. She did say she went to check a few days ago to make sure everything is in place and nothing had been touched.
And she thinks that he does not know what is in those lockers ? As per law everything is community property in absense of a prenuptial agreement. If he has details of what is in those lockers he can get a legal order for equal division of contents of that locker. If he is up to it , it will be difficult for her to get away with this trick she is planning.
Plus if his name is not on the locker than he can't access it even if he has a key. Banks check and document your id before letting you in at the safe deposit box area. Not anyone with a key can access a box unless their name is on it.
About the backpack, I don't see a point for you to be taking yours. Those lockers are not that big to contain stuff that would need two backpacks to be carried.
Plus if his name is not on the locker than he can't access it even if he has a key. Banks check and document your id before letting you in at the safe deposit box area. Not anyone with a key can access a box unless their name is on it.
About the backpack, I don't see a point for you to be taking yours. Those lockers are not that big to contain stuff that would need two backpacks to be carried.
yes about the name and signature , but if he has been paying the rent of that locker then I think( not sure) the contents of that locker would be community property and he will make sure that they are distributed equally after divorce.
^ lol.....
anyways.... our homeland tricks usually dont work over here .....
......like someone said trick with another locker aint gonna work if divorce is bound to happen ..... she needs to see a lawyer ...
And she thinks that he does not know what is in those lockers ? As per law everything is community property in absense of a prenuptial agreement. If he has details of what is in those lockers he can get a legal order for equal division of contents of that locker. If he is up to it , it will be difficult for her to get away with this trick she is planning.
She owns a law firm. I think she has the legal details down :/ I'd like to think so. The thing is everything is hers including the house he lives in and the car he drives. Maybe she has a way around it. It's more about her not wanting him to have anything of hers. The main reason their marriage is even falling apart is because he wants part of her dad's property etc.,
Anyway, I'll do my part i.e to be there as her friend.
Makes absolutely no sense as mentioned before that she's moving over a million dollars of jewelry and doesn't wanna pony up a few hundred for proper security. A true desi huh?
She owns a law firm. I think she has the legal details down :/ I'd like to think so. The thing is everything is hers including the house he lives in and the car he drives. Maybe she has a way around it. It's more about her not wanting him to have anything of hers. The main reason their marriage is even falling apart is because he wants part of her dad's property etc.,
Anyway, I'll do my part i.e to be there as her friend.
In that case she knows what she is doing , but I still think that she should use security company to move that millions of dollars worth of jewelry , it will not cost a lot to do so.
Put it in a Goodwill shopping bag -- ain't nobody gonna mug ya for a thriftstore bag. America is not like Pakistan -- nobody is going to be scoping you out like that. She will have privacy when she goes into the vault to check the contents of her safe deposit box. No one will see if she has taken anything or deposited anything. Relax. Bring the fiance if you like.
She's not paying for a security escort because that involves paperwork which divorce lawyers could trace. The whole point of this exercise is to hide all that jewelery so she has to do it herself.
By the way, it seems a little sexist doesn't it? Women marry rich guys, divorce them and receive half all the time. Why can't it work the other way around? The guy is going to get a lot, if not half, unless they had a prenup. That's why she's hiding the jewelery worth millions of dollars.
B******g about your friend on a public forum,questioning her intentions and then saying over and over again that we MASHALLAH are good friends....its better not to have a friend than a friend like you any day.
Pakista thats not a very nice thing to say. no matter how good of a friend u are of someone who will feel certain negativities based on past things that have happened. she is merely asking for points of view because her fiance has tried to make her see another perspective nad now she is questioning whether she is being taken for a ride.
If I were you, I'd tell her that I can bring the backpack but I'm not holding it after she puts her stuff in it. She can take it with her in her own car. Be honest and tell her you don't want the responsibility but you'd be there for her. Also, I don't think it's a big deal, you need to relax =)
