i dont wanna get married

[5amra]

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@philosophy

Muje nai kerne shhaadi

kyun nahi karni shaaaddiiii …

People just look at that ONE positive point of being single and ignore the difficulties that lie ahead.

[LucyMay]

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I love being married too

Philosophy, trick is to find a spouse who doesn’t try to stifle you and helps you grow. It’s an incredible feeling to have your “very own person” cheering for your success and a shoulder to cry on when things don’t look too good.

[us1415]

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^Ditto.

Also to add a person who gets you no matter what. I cant wait to come to work on the morning and cant wait to go home after work. Add kids to the mix and its all great!!

[Krypton]

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@ehl-e-chamman

it isnt a box! its your home!
there is something very stable and smexy waking up to a beloved face. its contentment.
kids are changelings … mine keeps me guessing alllllllll day
car, job. neighbors, pets and yourself have nothing to do with marriage … those are up to you to keep exciting.

kudos to you ofr thinking about it that way…that’s awesome…but im sure it gets boring after a while

@5amra

kyun nahi karni shaaaddiiii …

People just look at that ONE positive point of being single and ignore the difficulties that lie ahead.

difficulties like :S all i can think of is being semi-alone when your old and not being surrounded by a family you built

@LucyMay

I love being married too

Philosophy, trick is to find a spouse who doesn’t try to stifle you and helps you grow. It’s an incredible feeling to have your “very own person” cheering for your success and a shoulder to cry on when things don’t look too good.

mhm i dunno. i dont even see it as a valuable relationship. like mother-daughter, sisters, children, etc…but what is the relationship of a husband and wife :S nothing. there is nothing that holds them together and makes them respect each other. if people in general are good theyll do that for anyone not just a spouse. they can be strangers in a nanosecond.

@JoelKhan

^Ditto.

Also to add a person who gets you no matter what. I cant wait to come to work on the morning and cant wait to go home after work. Add kids to the mix and its all great!!

but every other person leads your life. kya special ker leya hai :S

and then what if you realize you married the wrong person

[Krypton]

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another thing. the other relationships in our lives...we come across hurdles and difficulties and pass them and sometimes the relationship becomes stronger. but i feel like in a marriage if something goes wrong or trust is lost...then it can just never be the same. and one person always compromises more than the other. or loses more of their "identity"

[Hmmna]

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na karo shadi yaar tension kyun le rahi ho.

[blackdiamond]

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@RocketSocket

A little of topic but is there something wrong if you haven’t felt attracted to someone? Never had a crush on anyone etc. My mother goes crazy whenever I trek her that I won’t marry or have kids. That’s not a problem for me but it is fit my mother which essentially makes it my problem. Agreed with Midnight though, it will only be a problem if you make it a problem yourself.

Sounds so much like my mom.

[ButtSb]

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its the only way to get laid for religious folks. not much else to it other than difficulties..

[Krypton]

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its the only way to get laid for religious folks. not much else to it other than difficulties..

there's more to life

[pinks]

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@philosophy

mhm i dunno. i dont even see it as a valuable relationship. like mother-daughter, sisters, children, etc....but what is the relationship of a husband and wife :S nothing. there is nothing that holds them together and makes them respect each other. if people in general are good theyll do that for anyone not just a spouse. they can be strangers in a nanosecond.

Thats what makes this relationship that much more special... that by God mercy we're able to create a relationship that didn't previously exist... a relationship based on a vow/ love/ mercy/ care rather then blood.

Sure there will always be people who do not do justice to this beautiful relationship but thats their loss... there really is somethings magical in having that one person thats yours, and only yours :)

[redvelvet]

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Then don’t get married, Phil. It’s not going to affect anybody else…much less strangers on an online forum. If you’re seeking advice because you’re unsure, it’s one thing. But it seems like you’re not asking us nor is your mind open to reasons provided by members in support of marriage…rather you’re telling us. Not sure why as it won’t impact us.

It’s your life. Just be sure that you’re absolutely certain. There are some decisions that we waver on…and the passage of time only makes things harder. Consider positive real-life examples that negate your views so you have a broader perspective. And think about whether your beliefs are stemming from some fear or hurts. Though I guess it can be argued that people can also form relationships based on fear. Again, ur life.

[Paheli00]

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@philosophy

i dunno. i dont even see it as a valuable relationship. like mother-daughter, sisters, children, etc....but what is the relationship of a husband and wife :S nothing. there is nothing that holds them together and makes them respect each other. if people in general are good theyll do that for anyone not just a spouse. they can be strangers in a nanosecond.

Are your mom and dad still married? If so then is this how you also view their marriage?

[Paheli00]

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@redvelvet

Then don’t get married, Phil. It’s not going to affect anybody else…much less strangers on an online forum. If you’re seeking advice because you’re unsure, it’s one thing. But it seems like you’re not asking us nor is your mind open to reasons provided by members in support of marriage…rather you’re telling us. Not sure why as it won’t impact us.

^ This. I’m not quite sure what you’re hoping out of this thread Phil. Whether you get married or not…either is not going to create a problem for any of us in this forum. And it seems like you already have your mind made up.

[MM]

Hiii!
Me either

[sweetequation]

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me 2

[Hakuna_Matata_1]

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@sweetequation

me 2

khair hai na Didi

[sweetequation]

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bas g jab tak shadi nahi hay samghoo khair hi khair hay , was just sharing my thought

[Hakuna_Matata_1]

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@sweetequation

bas g jab tak shadi nahi hay samghoo khair hi khair hay , was just sharing my thought

shaadi kerne ko dil kiska kerta hai ??

life bohot tough hojati hai… itni zimaydariyaan aajati hein…

but ye to kerni parti hai.. warna 40 saal ke baad ki umar jahanum ban jati hai

and wese bhi shaadi shuda life ka bhi aik alag maza hai.. partner ke sath life easy hojati hai..

and burhapay me aik dusre ka sahara hote hein

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[Ghost14]

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You should find yourself a nice gay man to cohabitate with. Win win.

[sweetequation]

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whom exactly ur advising that Ghost14:konfused: