Re: I don’t appreciate it!
ok, so they say as GS is a family forum, we should always remember when posting any thing that doesn’t seem good to be discussed so openly.. but I ask, ab reh kiya gaya hay discuss kernay ko, you can see almost every topic has been discussed over here husband wife personal probs, delivery gossips, first night issues, women problems (that really shouldn’t be discussed so openly ) s*x life and now surprisingly 3 different threads on virginity!! where things are discussed so openly!! I don’t know why people think that because this is a forum and no one can see you, no one can know you and even no one has nothing to do with you when you are out of this place.. then anything can be discussed!! anything can be said! If I can explain with an example, Hazrat Bibi Fatima, once faced a blind man and she did not do the parda, Hazrat Mohammad P.B.U.H asked her to cover herself there she said, “but this man is blind, he can’t see me” and Hazrat Mohammad P.B.U.H replied, "but YOU have eyes and you can see him". if we take this example like this, that sometimes we are required to do good deeds for ourselves! kuch cheezon ki haya apnay aap mai honi chahye! zaruri nahin gunah sirf woh ho jo kisi ke samnay aap karen, balkay gunah wo bhi jo aap akele main karen, even if you know, no one knows you. likewise, wo baten jo dhaki chhupi rehni chahyen unhe openly discuss kerna bhi gunah hay! No offenses! I really said, what I felt like. Correct me if I am wrong with no ridiculous and taunting comments!
P.S. Sirf words censor kernay say kuch nahin hota, sometimes its better to censor what you think too! everything is not to be said!
But even if Hazrat Fatimah covered her self up, she would still be able to see the blind man, its not like she was covering up her eyes as well. Like putting a blindfold on her eyes which prevented her from seeing the blind man? If her face is covered up her eyes are still opened, she needs them to walk and do stuff lol these stories get silly once in a while.