That explains it then!
When your mom didn't have"pahannay ko kapra" aur "na khnay ko khana" - you just sat there and watched! You are a GR8 son!
And when your mom was doing her "ghulami" listening to "galiaan" as duain - Shabash!
We were too young.
Alhamdolillah she sacrificed for us. Gave all of us great education. We all got gr8 job and took care of our mom Alhamdolillah.
But she love my dad like a heer but my father definately no a ranjha.
But in this world Allah selected her for azmaish and she made Jannah for herself.
I use to ask things for her from my dad.