Re: hurt from people around you?
^ good people realize that they are being used some point in their lives, and yes you do get hurt by those around, like a few other posters have said, only if you let them.
I think family, especially tend to use others (from wwhat i’ve experienced and seen) because they thnk it’s okay…they ‘share the same blood’ na issi liay. 
and they act like as if it’s nothing but simple family love and what-not between them 
however, most people do work in a way that will be a positive impact to them, be it them usingtheir family. It doesn’t matter to them. You just gotta stand firm and not let someone mess about with you I guess. =\