Re: Hubby using Abusive Language!!
:no:
she is my sister from the core of my heart.
Re: Hubby using Abusive Language!!
We all know, some of the men use abusive language while speaking..! Does YOUR hubby use abusive language in front of you?? its not only about being extreme in using such a language but even the minor ones!!
If yes, are you okay with that???
Well, thanks My Hubby never ever used such a language in front of me..
Can't deny the fact some men do it when in their friends :@:
Queeni doesn't abusive language comes in category of domestic violence, I don't know how ladies handle abusive husbands, it too much if you respect your relationship you will never use bad language. Sometimes friends or couple who is too friendly might use F word in a joke but seriously every good relationship starts with respect. I don't know why you are asking this question?:@:
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Violence is more physical....although verbal abuse can sometimes lead to that. I think it would fall more into domestic abuse in general.
Like I said before....it's not often that you read threads in this forum where a woman is more than content with her marriage. And it's great that Queen has a loving husband, MA. May everyone be so blessed, Ameen.
But the problem, Queen, is that there should be a balance in discussion. Everything in moderation. When someone talks about one subject most of the time (a celebrity/break-up/husband/wife, etc)...it can turn people off. I think many of us have been on the receivig and giving end of this equation. If you look at your thread history....there are several threads you've created about loving him, and missing him, and him missing you, and about how your jaanu is good at this...and good at that....and doesn't engage in this bad habit, etc. Sure, there isn't really any paabandi in discussing such matters, but it can become problematic when over-done. I'm not trying to be mean to you...just some points to think about.
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Yes redvelvet you can say domestic abuse but my point is its still not nice to use abusive language in house.
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^ wow if the bar is so high UZ, God help us all. In any relationship, tempers flare at times, words get exchanged. Some words more colorful than others. Perfect is impossible to achieve - a simple apology would suffice.
Re: Hubby using Abusive Language!!
^ wow if the bar is so high UZ, God help us all. In any relationship, tempers flare at times, words get exchanged. Some words more colorful than others. Perfect is impossible to achieve - a simple apology would suffice.
No Southie the bar is not high actually giving maa behan ki gaali is one of Kabirah gunnnah its like killing someone. Seriously I haven't used a big colorful words in my 11 years marriage and I hope I never use them in future. About hubster he is MA very calm guy he knows never to use big words when angry.
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^ Agreed with the Ma Behan type gaalis - that is a no no. I was thinking of other gaalis that guys (esp) may be more inclined to use - .... this, ..... that etc.
The Ma Behan type gaalis takes me back several years, when one of the best non-gaali gaali we used to use was "teri maa ko apni maa kahoon"
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^ how is that a gaali?
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^ how is that a gaali?
It is not! That is why I called it non-gaali gaali. Sounds like a gaali, but is actually harmless.
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thats correct…
but…on the other hand tehre is nadz… you people never happy with anything tsk tsk
Re: Hubby using Abusive Language!!
^ Agreed with the Ma Behan type gaalis - that is a no no. I was thinking of other gaalis that guys (esp) may be more inclined to use - .... this, ..... that etc.
The Ma Behan type gaalis takes me back several years, when one of the best non-gaali gaali we used to use was "teri maa ko apni maa kahoon"
Uncle is umar mein bhe :@:
Just Kidding ;)
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Uncle is umar mein bhe :@:
Just Kidding ;)
Waleed Betey, hum apnee bachpan ki baath kar rahey the. Aapnay yeh :@: stare kyon diya humein - aisee kownsee bhhol huyee humsein? :)
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This and that type might work, its out of topic but I remember once my mom was really angry at me and she said pagal ki bachi naa hovay to and dad yelled from drawing room mujhe to gaali naa do 
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^ that is funny. Your mom was smart - did not call you paglee ki bachi - nice self preservation!