Re: how would you liked to be judged?
We may not realize it, but we are constantly judging others. First impression/appearance of people, their dressing, most importantly how they talk. Knowingly or otherwise we make an image of that person and sometimes treat them accordingly i.e. we will be very friendly with some people and not that friendly with some others. Someone could strike as an arrogant and/or ignorant person, but after a conversation we realize that we were wrong. I believe it happens with all of us. Judgement is a natural process, it is the process of taking in the information we gather from our surroundings and processing it based on our experience and knowledge. Sometimes we are right, sometimes not.
Judging excessively is the problem. And judging people out loud in presence of other people, discussing people, and labeling people without really knowing much about them - these are the flaws of mind and character.