Re: How would you have handled it?
Not every thread is about the OP. The “You” implies the issue is about me. I am not married I am not in a relationship. If I start a thread about how adultery is handled, it automatically becomes about me?
So I guess curtains bought by the Mil even after 1 or 2 years stay no matter what! Got it. So marriage is all about power struggles with the elders. Fun. In the house, the paintings are still in that same place as they were when they were first put there because the husband makes sure they cannot be moved.
When my sister in law married my brother, my family already knew that she would be the one decorating the house. She can decide whether or not to put up something we give her. It just makes sense to me. My mother left everything to her when it came to my brother’s house.