how turn a clingy wife into a non-clingy wife..

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Re: how turn a clingy wife into a non-clingy wife..

There ain't no probably. He just IS.

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Re: how turn a clingy wife into a non-clingy wife..

On a serious note Nadz, you don't have to stop clinging. If your husband is annoyed with you, try a different method. Don't verbalize your complaints. Don't complain to your husband about little things you see wrong with him, if you do this. Don't ask him to spend more time with you. Just physically be near him. When he comes home and sits on the couch, don't say anything, just physically begin cuddling with him. Try it, it might have an effect.

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Re: how turn a clingy wife into a non-clingy wife..

Just hug him and kiss him more, no words exchanged.

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This is not guaranteed to work, its just that men are annoyed by what many would term to be their wife's nagging. If you cut that, you might see a better response from your husband to you and more intimacy in the relationship.

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Re: how turn a clingy wife into a non-clingy wife..

You might stop feeling the urge to act like a baby if you remind yourself everyday that you have two babies of your own and that means its time to grow up (mentally).

If this doesn't work, seriously consider getting professional help with whatever underlying psychological issues you have.

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Re: how turn a clingy wife into a non-clingy wife..

keep being clingy

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What KC said..stop thinking about him too much..think about yourself and your kids..u have so much to do and look forward to..how can someone b clingy after having two kids? I was clingy as a fiancee but after marriage things change..u have so much more to do and think/care about..I know he(my hubby) is not going anywhere so y should I only think about him and not enjoy my own personal space? On my way to motherhood I have so much to plan that even now I want my time alone..I dont know how I would even think of anything/one else once kiddo is here..concentrate on your kids if not on yourself..u would miss these moments once they grow up:hugz:

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Re: how turn a clingy wife into a non-clingy wife..

I don’t think she clings on 24/7. I mean, some of the post sounds like her clinginess is taking away from her parenting. I highly doubt that. It’s not like her child is crying for past 2 hours for food an d she’s busy clinging. :smack:

If the husband doesn’t mind, then I don’t see what the problem is. Not everyone is the same. Some people would would like it some don’t.