How to stop being so sensitive..

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Re: How to stop being so sensitive..

wear de-sensitizing megnetic bangles on both wrists :D

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This...

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Re: How to stop being so sensitive..

It's a very difficult task. One has to make his (gender neutral pronoun) heart empathetic and soft as wax to sympathize with others and to feel their pain. At the same time, he has to make his heart firm as rock to counter his own emotions, as personal emotions can derail one from his path.

Let me clarify, not all emotions are bad, emotions that originate from soul are the ones to keep and cherish, and the emotions that come from the Nafs need to be shunned.

Examples:
Soul emotions: Love happiness compassion joy tranquility humility piety sense of duty, sense of justice, sense of humor, sense of virtue, sense of honor, sense of dignity, sense of self-worth, confidence, etc
Nafs emotions: Anger greed lust envy selfishness hate ego insecurity cruelty self pity addictions irresponsibility, etc

You see, positive emotions come from the soul, so the soul needs to be nourished. The weaker the soul, the stronger the nafs and vice versa. The question arises now, how do you nourish the soul? I'll think about it and you think about it too.

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well are these people just doing it ocassionally and on non-personal stuff OR r they making comments on really personal hurtfuol stuff and doing it all the time ? ..

if its the latter .. u need to stop interacting with these people .. but if its the prior than u have ot not care .. n pick ur fights carefully .. doint waste energy on stuff thats not important ..