Re: how to KEEP ur GF HAPPY
The "Haya" of a man or a woman which he/she saves for his/her spouse can be related to a paper. Tear the paper into pieces and write the name of every person on each piece of paper (who ever you didn't marry but were involved with "emotionally" and "physically" )
Now after giving one piece of paper to each of them, whatever size of paper you are left with is actually the "Haya" you are left with to share with your "Spouse to be".
I don't agree to the above. I might have agreed to it when I was a bit younger and more idealistic but cannot see the logic anymore. Haya is not something which you can tear and throw away. It depends on your intentions and actions. If someone does not have a single relationship in life, does not automatically mean that he is full of heya. On the other hand, if a person has multiple relationships in life, does not necessarily mean that he does not have any.