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mahru read the great tips people have given in how to control spouse thread instead :)
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Don't laugh at me, it's true. :(
I've tried that look and I look ridiculous. Nahi, I look like I've been beaten up. Kohl is just not meant for me.
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Mehnaz you arent alone.
I look like a bhangan (as mum would put it) with the kajal.
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i think kohl requires alot of practice to get a really neat look....also it looks like racoon eyes if u have dark circles under the eye....oh wth just use eyeliner or pencil gurl..or the smoky look
i think bare eyes look fine too ....
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The area around my eyes is very very oily, which is a good thing cause it minimises getting wrinkles n stuff but it also makes everything i put on or around my eyes seep down into a pool giving me the bhangan effect.
Even the waterproof stuff.
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^lol bhangan effect ... too bad khol is v pretty
mahru thanks a lot
really informative thread
u know my hubby has this obession w/ singing and i was always like what is ur deal??
hehe but now i guess i can just say he has good taste
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by the way--- where did u find this info?
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I never understand articles like these. I've seen a million of them and I always have issues with them. I'm married and I think my husband and I have a wonderful relationship Masha-Allah. I don't do any of those things. If I did, he'd . . . eh, he'd be so puzzled and probably take me to the hospital and tell them i got dropped on the head or something. He'd freak out if i started acting like someone i'm not, or if i apologized when we argue just to stop the argument. He'd feel like i'm being fake to him if he knew that i was in a bad mood for whatever reason but pretending to be happy because he's just getting home for work. He'd definitely hate it if i turned into an obedient wife. And, I do thank him when he does something nice but if I started doing that for every little thing, he'd go crazy because he knows that I do nice things for him too. While a thank you every now and then is nice. . .we both know we do things for each other because we adore each other and sometimes a look just says it all. (And, that's not to say you shouldn't show your appreciation, you most definitely should). I think in order to be a good wife or a good husband, all one really needs is honesty, trust, love, flexibility, mutual respect and the ability to accept each other for who they are. And, of course, Allah's (swt) blessing. It is knowing that every now and then, you will fight because you are two different people who are constantly changing and growing and you cannot possibly agree on everything. Now if my husband and I didn't agree on something and I gave in just because I'm supposed to be an obedient, fight-extinguishing wife, he'd hate it because he wants to make me happy and he married me for me and if I was to pretend, it wouldn't be me being me. It would be like i'm lying to him. I respect him far too much to do that to him and I definitely wouldn't want it from him. And, he knows that even if we're fighting like crazy, I still love him and he still loves me and eventually, Insha-Allah, we will work it out and come to some sort of solution that would address both of our needs/wants/desires. COMPROMISE
I don't know if any of this makes sense but that's just my three cents.