[QUOTE] Originally posted by Seedha Saada: *
Sex is naturally taught. Nilu and all who wonder what it is or it may be or think they are missing out on any vital information *should try relying on their basic instincts. I am pretty sure that it has more to tell than either your mom or anyone else can ever.
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That's not so true....
If you have no education about sex whatsoever, relying on things you see int eh street or on the television or whatnot, you can get very big misconceptions about sex. One such example I heard in high school would be that you can't get pregnant if a guy pulls out. If you were to take proper sex ed, you would know that you CAN get pregnant if any form of intercourse takes place without proper protection. And even then, condoms and birth control pills are NOT 100 percent effective AT ALL.
no of course not…
they’re all very good girls mashallah..it just goes to show, that everyone thinks about these things and talks about them, and if u do it doesn’t make you a slut or anything
If you have no education about sex whatsoever, relying on things you see int eh street or on the television or whatnot, you can get very big misconceptions about sex. One such example I heard in high school would be that you can't get pregnant if a guy pulls out. If you were to take proper sex ed, you would know that you CAN get pregnant if any form of intercourse takes place without proper protection. And even then, condoms and birth control pills are NOT 100 percent effective AT ALL.
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Yeah for the high school guys/girls I can take it but once you grow up you actually know how you would get pregnant and how can you avoid it.
Nilu seems like there are some serious issues going on in your life and i would say you should talk to a Sex Therapist. Tell your family doctor or gynecologist to recommend you an excellent sex therpist, it will help you open up about lot of issues and questions in ur mind. Specially the issues about been sacred of getting urself checked and having a baby etc....its all in ur head and it phychological..only talking to someone very close to you or a professional will help.
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*Originally posted by Sadiyah: *
I think it's pretty shameless to be talking to one's parents about intercourse.
There are many other (appropriate) avenues that one could turn to find out about the much desired information.
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What? Are you kidding??? Why is it so horrible to speak to your parents about sex?? I'm not saying that everyone has to, but I don't think that one should feel ashamed at all if you do choose to speak to parents. I can't think of a more appropriate avenue.
Ok children. Enough. Here's the conclusion of this thread:
It's okay for a girl/guy to talk to (respectively) your mother/father if you are single and have a question in general about sex or your body. On the other hand, if you are married, you should be talking to your spouse only especially if you are having problems in your sex life. Yeah you can still talk to your parents, but you are not kids anymore, remember? Now it's better that you talk to your spouse rather than telling your neighbours or parents how your sex life is not so great these days.
^ No. Because if they knew, they wouldn't be wasting their time calling each other wrong. This thread wouldn't have been opened in the first place. The person who has opened this thread is older than most of us and is married. Atleast she should've known what I said up there, if us kids didn't know. People are saying she has no point in this thread, which may be ture. But if she did make the mistake of asking this simple question, people should either go ahead and reply Either I discuss it with my parents or I don't discuss it with my parents. Simple as that. Now that people are getting offended or asking the point of this thread, instead of respecting other people's views and saying "sorry if my thread offended you, I was just curious", she's getting ticked off and cursing people just because their opinion differs from her's. Aik chori, ooper sey seena zori.
[QUOTE] Originally posted by Shikra: *
^ No. Because if they knew, they wouldn't be wasting their time calling each other wrong. This thread wouldn't have been opened in the first place. The person who has opened this thread is older than most of us and is married. Atleast she should've known what I said up there, if us kids didn't know. People are saying she has no point in this thread, which may be ture. But if she did make the mistake of asking this simple question, people should either go ahead and reply **Either* I discuss it with my parents or I don't discuss it with my parents. Simple as that. Now that people are getting offended or asking the point of this thread, instead of respecting other people's views and saying "sorry if my thread offended you, I was just curious", she's getting ticked off and cursing people just because their opinion differs from her's. Aik chori, ooper sey seena zori.
Mal1k Salute karo mujhe!
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I agree, this is a stupid thread. People sometimes ask ridiculously stupid questions that has simple and obvious answers. If you are going to ask a stupid question then you have no right to get offened when people post stupid answers.
