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*Originally posted by Sara516: *
well...this IS the health and relationships forum, and sex is a part of relationships...
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Finally some1 who i dont have to explain about this topic
My mother pretends she doesn't know what it is.
Hmm..thats strange Gudia what if u wanna know something
then u can't ask ur mom about it.
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*Originally posted by Nilu: *
Finally some1 who i dont have to explain about this topic
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I don't see why people have such a problem with discussing sex here. Like I said, this IS the health/relationships forum, and sex is an integral part of health and relationships.
Unfortunately, fools like to come in here and make idiotic, immature and crude comments that ruin the discussion.
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*Originally posted by Sara516: *
I don't see why people have such a problem with discussing sex here. Like I said, this IS the health/relationships forum, and sex is an integral part of health and relationships.
Unfortunately, fools like to come in here and make idiotic, immature and crude comments that ruin the discussion.
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Yea the act saint but they dont!
I dont think I WOULD ask my mom about anything regarding sex. She isn't too useful in that regard.
If I needed medical advice, she would be of no use. If I needed emotional advice, she would be irrelevant, because intercourse involves man and woman, not woman and mom. If I needed advice of any other nature, then I'd consult the internet or the medical community.
^ depends on what kind of relationship u have with ur mom :-)
nilu lets talk about sex since u seem to be really interested in this topic. share ur experiences with us.. the dos and donts of it.
I think it's pretty shameless to be talking to one's parents about intercourse.
There are many other (appropriate) avenues that one could turn to find out about the much desired information.
Amongst my friends, many are married, but none of us would ever talk about intercourse or anything of that nature.
Yes, we may discuss health related issues, but nothing related to the actual intercourse and intimacy.
As a typical guy, I talk to my friends about it. If it's a question about male body, I ask/discuss it with my male friends. If it's a question about female body, I simply ask a female friend, rather than going to male friends and getting second hand/wrong information. Simple as that.
definately not a paki girl cauze just bringin the subject gives them shivers and makes them all nervous and embarrass (well may be they are only pretending 
) Anywayz…I dont really feel comfortable askin about it with parents so its usually the close friends.
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I dont think I WOULD ask my mom about anything regarding sex. She isn't too useful in that regard.
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Oh c omeon PCG, afterall she gave birth to you didn;t she :D
Nilu like a few others here I am also curious about ur motive for asking the question. If it serves no purpose it deserves no answer and if it does serve a purpose then let's have it. And no i dont act saint but I don't. Nome sayn?
this thread sucks
suroor said it well :D
nilu: tell us about do's and dont's ;)
u can talk free free. wow, way to go gurl and mom. this thread to me, is more of a brag abt how u can taak sex with yr mom, than anything else. btw what does the word mean? actually my mom never said it, but i think she still believes i came in a basket. khush? our moms are all so backward. Nilu u and yr mom rock. u guys talk sex.:k:
now that is real freindly parenting.
why is it considered so broad minded if a girl can talk bout sex with her mom? what is so broad minded bout it? either ure comfy talkin with ure mom bout sex or u cant.. i know some girls who cant even talk/joke bout guys with their moms.. its all to do with what kinda relationship u have with ure mother.... that's all :)
to me my mom is the most intelligent, clever and wise person i have ever met.. a lot of knowledge in that pretty head of her's... should i have any probs, no matter what topic... i know she's the first person i would consider talkin to... even bout sex. And that's just cuz im comfy with her the same way im comfy with my closest friends... :)
Sadiya: saying that its shameless to talk bout such matters with ure folks.. that's sad.. really. You can go do so many wrong things behind their backs and not have shame but god forbid if u need serious help for something that is jayaz (allowed).. u cant go to ure own flesh and blood for support .. the ppl who care teh most bout u and will give the best advice that they can... being able to talk bout such topics with ure folks should not be called a shameless act (for those ppl who do talk to their parents bout sex etc).
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exactly..my mom is of the same type...:-)
i can talk abt everything with her..EVERYTHING includes anything after marriage means sex ...
its just wat sorta relation u have with ur mom...
and then my closest friends...we talk abt everything...u dont wanna know what?:D
khawateen, my mom happens to be a doctor. I speak to her quite freely about a number of matters. However, I would never talk to her about matters related to intimacy. I'd rather keep it between myself and my husband.
If I'm not wrong, Islamically, such topics (intimacy) should be kept between husband & wife and not to be shared with others.
I apologize if I misunderstood you or nilu. From what I could gather, the question seemed to be about who could you 'openly' discuss the topic of intimacy with. Therefore, I presented my opinion.
I think it's the culture that stops us from talking these matters to our parents and they never open to us either regarding this subject and we end up with no information what so ever.
Sex is just an everyday routine in Islam too but it has limitations I remember our Imam Sahib in Pakistan talking about the Islamic way to have it which proves that our prophet (PBUH) has talked and did teach us about it too but when it comes to our parents, they act like we have sinned or something if we try to ask a question.
Just wanna add something. If I want to know something about anything, Google is my best friend and buddy :D
^^ trust me u dont wanna write the word “sex” in google