How low (or high) will you go?

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Re: How low (or high) will you go?

@chaibiskut

Generally speaking, you’re going to be hard pressed to find a South Asian male who’s into older women. If the guy is ok with it, his mother won’t be. Even a 6 month difference can raise eyebrows in our culture. Unless you quote the Prophet’s marriage to Khadija. Then everyone scowls and calls you a wet blanket. Gotta love desis.

Pfffft! I went on a few dates with older women. One was 20 years older than me. Although she did have me fooled; didn’t look like she’d turned over 30 to me.

Anyway, that’s not the point of my post. I wanted to say that on the flip side, you’ll also find South Asian girls who aren’t into older men. Well, only until they aren’t having luck getting hitched up and suddenly age is but a number to them. I’m not knocking them but this happens too.

I personally don’t think a big difference is ages should matter as long as you can relate on a more basic level, say communication, chemisty, sexual attraction (Oh oh, I said the S word!) and so on…

It is what it is.