family related to friend of your relative??wow , and you let them stay with you for 3 weeks? No, I dont have that kind of patience. It’s not much of a issue of too much work for me, it’s an issue of privacy and personal space.
BTW, a long long time ago when I used to chat on yahoo a lot there was this Indian online friend of mine who I had been talking to for quite some time, he said his family was coming to US and said since we were such great friends that I HAD to keep them at my house and treat them nicely until they find their own place…
needless to say, i blocked him out of my list!